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Trying to Conceive

Trying to conceive and I'm post partum

Hey guys I just had a baby but my fiance and I are trying again because we really want a girl this time. Wish me luck!

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Remember to wait 6 weeks as your still healing 💕and with breastfeeding your cycles might be off slightly for up to a year or two ...focus on the baby you have right now as this is a precious time 🙏

Doctors and midwives alike do not recommend getting pregnant sooner than 6 months at the bare minimum. Ideal recommendation is 12-18 months and it takes up to 2yrs for the female body to fully heal. Anytime before 6 months is risky for you and the fetus ❤️

Like the other ladies have said, please give yourself enough time to heal and recover - your body has been through a lot. And also remember there is no way to determine gender of the baby so don’t be disappointed if it’s another little boy x

You risk getting an Infection if you have sex before the 6 week mark, Good Luck though.

Getting pregnant right away won’t do anything for getting a girl. It’s literally 50/50. Please give yourself time to heal, you have a dinner plate sized round in your body at the moment and your hormones are all over the place

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