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I’m feeling really overwhelmed with trying to choose a good quality (but not overpriced) pram to use from birth. Looking for one that has a carry cot (to use for bedside sleeping in first months too), a seated pushchair for a few months on and a car seat as we have limited space o. The house. It also needs to be suitable for taking on woodland walks so not one of those ‘city strollers’ with flimsy wheels! Any recommendations? My in laws have kindly offered to buy the pram for us, but don’t want to take the mick with what we choose 😅

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I got the bugaboo donkey duo on fb marketplace for £150, will suit multiple kids in the future, has such a helpful side basket etc! Amazing off road, we live in the forest of dean & go on really crazy muddy walks and over gravel, taken it on sand etc. It has a 2 wheel mode for pulling up stairs/on rough terrain etc. Has carry cot & seat, and car seat attachments for most car seats (though car seats on prams aren't safe really, especially not for more than 30 mins). I see them on fb marketplace for £300-£500 usually but keep an eye out!

If not, the bugaboo fox 5 is approved for overnight sleep & you can get a stand for it! Same off road wheels, big lower basket & can have carrycot, seat or car seat xx

I kind of wish I got my hauck runner from the start! Can get adaptors for the car seat to go on and it can go off into the woods no problem! However no carry cot.. but we co-sleep so don't need one here 🥰

We have the mountain buggy urban jungle and love it. But with the carry cot it's quite big in the car, so check it will fit!
We bought ours as a bundle with the maxi Cosi pebble. I wouldn't necessarily recommend the pebble as it's a bit clunky, but mountain buggy do adaptors to fit various car seats so just check they fit and it'll go with any. The carrycot they do is also rated for overnight sleep (which is important to check if you're planning to use it for night time).

My daughter has a ickle bubba she’s is selling for £65 comes with all the bits except car seat as still using that. Collection only from Hove if interested I can send pics.

We have bought an ocarro, it has a top rating for all terrain. It's a little heavy but has a lovely basinet! Compatible with maxi cosy and cyber carseats too. Bought on FB market place for a fraction of the cost new

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Hour night wakes and 5am get up

Can anyone shed some light as to why on earth my child doesn’t want to sleep??? My eyeballs are bleeding!!

Never been a good sleeper, but the problems always changing. He’s nearly 9 months old.

Beginning of the month he dropped to 2 naps. We could put him to bed at 7pm and he’d get up for the day at 6am, with multiple wake ups every 2/3 hours.

Now we put him down at 7pm, he can do a good 4/5 hour stretch, but come 1/2am he’s up every hour then getting up for the day at 5am. This then completely messes up the day because I can’t keep him awake long enough to even get to 7pm, let alone later.

He has 2 naps, roughly about 1hr10 each but it changed based on when he wakes and trying to get him to a reasonable bed time.

What could be the reason for this? 6am is fine, but 5am is not 😩😩

Over supply of milk

I am nearly 5weeks postpartum and I have such a big over supply of BM.
Has anyone donated / sold their supply, if so where do you recommend for this?

I think its fair

Me and my partner agreed to sleep in 1 day of the weekend.
He doesn't find it fair to look after both kids (my 4 year old isnt his) while i sleep so he looks after the baby while i sleep and my toddlers at his dads and ill look after both the next day.
Straightaway it was pretty unfair as i let him sleep in until he wakes up 10-12
He wakes me up when baby starts fussing because he wants milk (doesnt need it)
I cant pump as i dont supply enough.
So i get woken at 9/9:30 to feed baby then i get him sleep then theres no point sleeping in as my toddlers being dropped off.
I also find it unfair that i get both kids to sleep most night, i get my toddler to sleep everyday hes home (4/5days) and i get my baby to sleep most nights with the exception of maybe twice a month as his dad struggless then about 95% of his thru the day naps.
I have also been unwell for a few months (tumor scare) and am waiting 18 weeks to see a specialist so im obviously petrified for that, so unbelievably tired and alot of aches and pains, specifically these pounding headaches ive been having.
After i had been up til 11:30 getting both kids to sleep lastnight and my partner falling asleep at 10 then him ignoring the baby cries all morning until my toddler woke up im fed up slammed to door and rold him not to expect to sleep in unless he gets the baby to sleep the night b4.
I keep having issues with him not feeling the wet from baby being sick or weeing himself or being able to smell it do about 98% of the time hes given to me i have to clean him up n change him.
Including at night, we agreed my partner would change nappies (1 a night at 5am) while i feed (2,4,5,6:30) but every night when i get him hes pissed through and my partner gets annoyed when i wake him up n moan about it.
Then the morning after hes annoyed at how much washing there is (thats his job) and moans about how often i change myself (baby constantly shits thru and sicks on me) and baby
Honestly im just so tired all the time

AITA

In the uk there is an outbreak of meningitis, in a specific area mainly. My BD has family from that area and decided to go and meet up with them, I said if he does then he cannot have contact with the kids for 7-10 days after incase he picks anything up. Am I being over dramatic? I reallyyy don’t want my young kids getting anything serious

Help meeee

!!All advice welcome!! My 5 month old (nearly 6mo) is just not sleeping . Not for naps and not at night . She can’t connect her cycles . We started sleep regression at 3 months but in like how is this nearly been going on for a further 3 months . Like surely not . She has 10 min naps in crib ( which take so much effort ) and maybe 20/30 min naps in my arms/pushchair . She wakes minimum every hour at night with guaranteed false start 20 mins in . I combo feed. I breastfeed her until almost asleep then place her in the next to me crib give her the pacifier and put my hand on her cheek/face for 20 seconds and she drifts off . It’s not really getting her to sleep that’s the issue it’s she just won’t stay asleep . She doesn’t even need to feed much at night usually 1-2 breastfeeds . The rest is comfort wakes needing her pacifier or my hand on her cheek . I’ve looked into sleep associations and independent sleep and I broke the feed to sleep association and rocking and do bedside comforting instead for most wakes which has now lead to my hand being a sleep association on her face . I’m just so exhausted my husband is working mon-fri 9-9 and it’s just me . I haven’t had more than 4 hours in a row since her birth . I can’t get anything done during the day . She is so clingy and cries if I leave room /put her down etc. I love her so much but we both need rest . If anyone has any tips or a routine that could help PLEASE tell me I’ll try anything 🥲❤️❤️

Crawling and walking

So my girl is 9 months now and shes great at sitting up and stays on her tummy for awhile but she seems to have no interest in trying to move or crawl or bum shuffle. Shes a big baby always has been but I'm disabled and I feel like it's my fault she's not hitting milestones I feel like there's something I'm not doing and it's making me a bad mum