Trans rights are human rights

Today my 16 year old was attacked outside of school by a group of people while they screamed “kill the tranny”. They have a pretty severe concussion and are pretty banged up. We filed a police report and are pressing charges for mob action and a hate crime.

Just want all the people who don’t support trans humans to know. You’re the problem and are who perpetuate this kind of behavior.

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Dam girl that’s awful! These kids too young to be filled with so much I hate. I’m sorry that happened to your kid, praying for a speedy recovery and lots of healing.

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That's terrible, I'm so sorry & I hope your child gets justice. Trans rights are human rights, absolutely!! 🩷

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I hope they are all held accountable.

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So sorry to hear this.

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Ya hold them all accountable !!! That's horrible ! I'm sorry they had to go through that! This upsets me.

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💔💔💔💔💔

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How awful 😢 I hope their recovery process goes smoothly

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I’m so sorry 😣

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I am so sorry, I can’t imagine what your family is going through and how scary it must have been for your child. Wishing them a speedy recovery. I hope the ppl responsible are prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.

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So sorry to hear this 😢
I hope they recover quickly.

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Sending positive energy for the healing of their mental and physical health 😞

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it is 100% part of it. You are part of the problem.

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Justice for them and your family! ♥️

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So sorry to hear this has happened I hope you get your justice x

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I hope they all get charges. This is so fucked

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this was not the right response. Why couldn’t you just say you’d pray for the person instead of being transphobic and treating it with Christianity.

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Besides that it’s absolutely rude AF when someone didn’t ask to be prayed for AND my child is Jewish. So telling them to find Jesus is beyond the pale. There’s no hate like Christian love!

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so real. I’m not going to lie I got in an arguement earlier on here and said I’d pray for her (just to piss her off) but really why do people use Christianity to justify horrible behavior. It’s crazy.

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Probably the same reason you did it too me earlier. No hard feelings love.

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girl you’re who I’m talking about, I wish you’d stop letting things linger, that why I trolled on you.

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you are part of the problem.

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You literally just brought it up lol just say you were wrong and move on…don’t be salty I called you out

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because that’s who they are and we support our kids.

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This app has thousands of posts debating trans topics, maybe hop on one of those to share your opinion because there's a time and place and choosing to do it here and now is incredibly insensitive 🙃

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I’m not salty, like I said last time, this is the internet, I’m not entertaining you anymore. I brought this up casually because there’s a wrong way to do things and a troll way, if it was in good faith it wouldn’t be said and I was stating I wasn’t in good faith, stinky.

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nope! But you are the problem for not supporting trans humans.

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She shared an experience. One that you have no understanding of, so move along 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Stating that your mentality is part of the problem with hate towards trans people is not an attack. Time & place, this is tacky

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she shared that her child was violently attacked. On an app for parents. This wasn’t an open debate on the identity of her child. The fact you saw it as an invitation for one is disgusting. As someone else said, move along.

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I’m so sorry about the pain your family is going through, and that this post is being hijacked by the same hatred which caused it. Trans people always have, always do, and always will matter. Your child is very lucky to have you. 🤍

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it’s not that it isn’t allowed, it’s that it’s insensitive and tactless to choose this post to voice your opinions. Just because you have a right to voice your opinions, doesn’t mean it’s always the kind thing to do

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This is horrible. Wishing your child a quick recovery!

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So awful, hope they’re doing ok as they can 💔 And that the school will take action on this too (assuming they were also students)

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oh sad to also see your comment about “no hate like Christian love” I think people should just let others have their own beliefs in peace. I’m a Christian and in no way do I think what’s happened is acceptable. Hate can be found in every background, religion, race and culture. It’s not fair to single some people out and act as if they’re the problem. Violent hateful people are the problem! People who can’t let others live freely are the problem . Let’s respect everyone’s belief no one is more important than the other

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i’m pretty sure everyone here is trying to make you feel better and give you support for your child. and you seem to just give backlash towards everyone. i gave up reading every single post bc it’s tiring lol. doesn’t seem to matter what anyone says 🤷🏻‍♀️ yeah, it’s not cool what those kids did to yours. it’s messed up. idk how kids that age are even capable of that, its disgusting.
but honestly, stop assuming everyone here is transphobic and that we are “the problem”.

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I hope them and their parents get what’s coming to them. That shit is learned behaviour! Absolutely horrific. So sorry you and your family have had to go through that and I hope you all get the justice you guys deserve.

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This is awful I’m sorry. I hate that people can’t just accept that people can be who they want to be and it doesn’t effect them in any way whatsoever 🤦‍♀️

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I’m so so sorry, it’s absolutely disgusting the way people show so much anger and hatred to something that has zero concern to them at all. I hope you and your family get the justice you deserve.
Trans rights are human rights 🫶🏻

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I’m so so sorry this happened to you and you kid. I’m especially sorry for the lack of sensitivity and bloody nerve some people have 😒 sending love to you and your family xx

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Who on earth is raising these people that go out and do such things, I would be absolutely mortified if my child ever grew up to be so hateful. No one knows why we are here and life’s hard, why would you want your life to be filled with hate and why wouldn’t you want everyone to be happy, whatever that looks like. I hope your child is ok, and I hope the culprits do get charged. Good luck.

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who are you to think someone else choice is wrong? And if u bring up God and Bible then answer me this ? Are u ok with the word of God being re written , and re written and translated, then given to kings for them to pick out what they chose and rewrite again . Y’all don’t even know what yall believe yet want to believe someone else is wrong .

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why are you bringing this here? So Christian’s can’t come here and feel bad for the child that’s been attacked? Now I feel unsafe as a Christian due to these hateful comments! You can’t brush us all under the same brush and me personally I do know what I believe in as a Christian! This is horrible. Maybe Bethany was insensitive in her approach but i don’t think it’s fair that all Christian’s are now being attacked because of this, it’s hypocritical! The people that attacked this child are most likely atheist as well. No one knows what the attackers believe or if their even Christian but we can’t come here and feel bad for someone that’s been attacked for living freely. The God I believe in gives free will for anyone to live how they want to. He doesn’t force anyone, if you want to believe you can if you don’t you don’t. That doesn’t mean we all have to agree it means we have to respect peoples choices not attack people

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Instead of showing compassion it’s turned into a hate fest. Disgusting

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I'm sorry this happened to your child :(

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😂😂😆 so what do you think about the Bible being rewritten hundreds of times and picked and pulled apart to make a book that y’all live and die by ? Having faith is one thing. But reading off a book that wasn’t even written by God then taking it and acting like yall known what’s wrong and who’s wrong is the most dangerous thing in this world . Don’t at me go cry about it . Don’t come writing me a book about your dump ideology . Learn to comprehend first . If u feel unsafe because of my comment then go hide under your Bible that u believe God wrote. How stupid do you have to be.

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sorry is this a religious debate or is this a post about a child that’s been senselessly attacked?

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u where already crying😂😂

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no not full of hate at all, if you don’t understand what hate is go look at Christian love . I’m not that sorry to disappoint.

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no absolutely not , I believe in Jesus . I’m talking about the book that people pull from and try and control them with . Did you read my first comment or u just can’t comprehend what I wrote.

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you’re right I’m sorry .

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