My Husband is serious about No Nut November

I’m so upset because I like having sex and I wanna do it while we can before I have the baby and we have to take a long break. I think the challenge is silly and I hate that he’s for real about it. 🙄🙄🙄

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Of course he can do what he wants! If a man was moaning about his gf/wife not wanting sex people would call him all sorts of names! But also maybe talk to him about some other things to do in the bedroom - if he is serious about not cumming himself doesn’t mean he can’t pleasure you still! xx

yeah that’s a good point

Get yourself a toy 😂

agreed also no reason u can’t have some pleasure alone! x

It makes me laugh that grown ass men do no nut November still

might not make sense to u and i personally don’t know anyone who still does that i haven’t heard it in years😂 but still have to respect their choice

I don’t judge them at all I just giggle that like people are STILL doing it. I had two of my guy friends inform me they still take part literally on Halloween

Girl I envy you

He can technically do what he wants, but can't get mad at you for taking care of yourself 😂 I'd probably feel the same way if my husband tried this especially since sex has always been a big part of our relationship and I'm very pregnant and very horny all the time 😂 imo he's being immature, but you should respect his choice and he's gotta understand you're still gonna wanna finish, even if he doesn't want to 😂

Is this a thing? I've never even heard of it 😂

What is that?

Get yourself a good toy lol. Adam and Eve has really good toys.

This happened every year when I was in relationships as an older teenager. The longest one lasted a week before he caved 😂

I'd be okay with a current relationship doing this as I kind of like to see how long they can last. Especially if it's okay if I try to break them

Remind him it’s no nut for 6 weeks after birth lol

Did he give you a reason why he wants to do it? Idk a married adult doing a childish challenge is kinda weird to me but maybe there’s a reason he wants to do it 🤷‍♀️

there’s no way a grow ass man is still taking part in NNN that’s so immature 🤦🏽‍♀️

The reason behind it is silly 🤣🤣🤣🤣 What? I never thought someone would actually take it seriously. I can't imagine my husband willingly take a month break. Only time we took a long break was after birth for like 4-6 months. But I'm pretty sure he still jerked off everyday. Guy has needs of course.

he said he just wants to prove he can do it 🤷🏼‍♀️

he’s trying not to ejaculate for the whole month

Why did he get married
It doesn't sound right

he’s only 20 and his friends are doing it so 🤷🏼‍♀️

it’s not unhealthy, I just don’t enjoy it lol

@Julie, but that's not correct. It's no penetration for 6 weeks, not no nut.

It's called no nut November. Not no sex November. It's also called no shave November.

I’m sorry but which man in his right mind doesn’t want to have sex for a month? It’s one thing to not be in the mood for one evening but this is absurd. I mean you can’t force him but I would be very confused/upset if my husband told me he was doing this

It's his body🤷‍♀️

looool 🤣🤣😂

Tell him to do no shave November instead 🤣

@Tanisha, I'm aware. lol I was responding to someone saying he can't nut for 6 weeks post, baby.

OHHHH my sincere apologies Mama 😅

@Tanisha, that's OK, lol. Be careful with what?

My husband has been saying for years that anyone who participates in that and takes it seriously is blind to the fact that they are doing it literally bc someone started it on the internet and they just need to open their eyes and realize following something as stupid as that says a lot about a person and they should reevaluate themselves

Girl I don't even know. I had a whole message thought out about not being able to have sex longer than 6 weeks and then got called away and now my pregnancy brain doesn't know what I wanted to say for the life of me 😭

@Tanisha, pregnancy brain is great isn't? 🤣

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