Am I selfish to say I want my own personal best friend?

Like someone who mainly just wants to hang out with me and vice versa? Someone who we can hang out together and go to events/outings/ etc. or just enjoy being around each other enough to do nothing and enjoy one another’s company. I want someone who I can call my own personal bestfriend! 😭Is that too much to ask for? 🫠

I’ve been okay with not having many friends up until recently because I really enjoy my alone time! And I’ve been content with being by myself often. But I became a STAHM about 2 years ago now, and I didn’t realize how much I needed outside interactions until I was home (almost) all day everyday with just my kids. So I’ve had a change of heart because of that lol. It would just be nice to have someone around my age and in a similar stage of life as me to just hang out with regularly.

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I think that’s normal 🩷

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If I still lived in Wisconsin I would be your friend I came down to Chicago so much 😭

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No girl. It's not wrong. Everyone deserves a best friend that they can confine in and just be their normal selves with.

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I to wish I had 1

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I feel the same way

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I want the same! lol

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Nope cause I want one

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I'm like 3 hours from you! I want the same I wish you were closer.

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Same here but where I live ugh

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Not unreasonable, wish I had one too.

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Absolutely not. I remember being devastated when my best friend throughout secondary school mentioned her best friend and I realised I wasn't hers any more. I was 23 and felt childish feeling hurt but having a best friend is a great feeling.

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Same girl..

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