Do you have sex on your couch?

Do you think it’s gross to guests? To children? This conversation popped up with friends and I. Half were “disgusted” and the other half didn’t care, sex in different places is fun. Just wondering more women’s thoughts on this as I’m curious now😂

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I’m sorry but I’ll say it. I wasn’t thinking of anything or anyone else but my man and my orgasm when I was bent up like a pretzel on the sofa 🥲

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No, because we'd break the couch 😳

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I paid for the sofa and I will have sex with my partner on the sofa, my house I really don’t care

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I do but I always make sure to put a blanket down, mainly because I don't want to get my couch wet or dirty lol. And partly because of my daughter and guests, like my grandma sits on my couch, even though she don't know I can't do her like that haha

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If you clean the cases after I don’t see why not🤷‍♀️ or put something down that protects it my kids spill chips then wanna eat it after so I would def think of that at least lmao

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it’s gross if you got something on the couch and didn’t clean it, otherwise who cares lol

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I mean as long as no one is licking the couch, smelling it, or some other weird stuff😂

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We lived in a 1 bedroom apartment till our girl was 2, yes we did.

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LMAOO fr 😭 I have never once thought of them while getting busy

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my couch is a futon that me and my partner sleep on… so…

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I haven’t on the couch but I used to on our guest bed or on the floor when needed if there was a kid in mom and dad’s bigger bed.

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Unfortunately for my guests the only furniture in the house that is safe is in my daughters room… everything else 🫣🤷🏻‍♀️🤣

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Yes it’s our couch we paid for it lol. But we put blankets or towels down. The only safe areas is my kids rooms to sit. 😂😂 Even the couch in the basement is not safe lol.

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This is why I never sit on peoples couch

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We put a blanket down if we do

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me either cus I know what I be doing on mine 🥲

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that was the whole counter argument 😭 baby I am not worried about some “would be” guests 💀

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Lol

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Not enough space on the couch

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Did, will do again. (And I wash the covers weekly).... not even sorry about the kitchen/table since that is washed multiple times a day... 😉

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Yes, but we always put a towel down

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Immediately yes lol. We’ve been having sex on this couch since before my son was thought of, why stop now 😂 I do use fabric disinfectant on it though and make sure we aren’t on the throw blanket or pillows

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What they don't know won't hurt them. Just make sure you remember to get your underwear out from under the cushions!

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Yes we do but we have two sofas one in the family room and one in the living Room so far we’ve only done it in the family room and we do wash the covers but guest when they come they’re usually in the living room area

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Sex on a couch is like one of the best places. I have and will continue to. Granted we don’t have many quests over but we do have the kids. I just make sure we clean up afterwards or lay down towels.

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