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So my daughter is 12 years old and she has this friend that she meet in school last year. She is in junior high school and this girl has already put my daughter through a lot. Last year my daughter was with this friends walking home from school and they were followed but a group of boys and one of the took off their bookbag and him my daughter in the face and back and all because her friend did something to them. Then her so called friend was making fun of how she talks my daughter has a speech problem. She also has dyslexia. I was told by her teacher yesterday that she is worried about who my daughter socialize with. I don’t know what to do I have had talk after talk with her my daughter and she still don’t listen to me I’ve had family and my neighbors talk to her and nothing so now I’m asking on here what do I do?

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When I was in middle school I started to hang out with a girl who was a bad influence on me and my parents were not thrilled. It definitely escalated, and I started to make some really bad decisions. My parents told me I’m not allowed to hang out with this girl anymore and while I was mad at them for a while I am glad they stood their ground and didnt allow me to hang out with her anymore. She went down a bad path so I’m glad she didnt drag me along with her. Be stern with your daughter and don’t allow her to see the friend anymore

Friend bring you go and don’t bring you back. Keep talking to your daughter. Show her that this friend is not a good friend. She’s a bad influence. Give her examples explain to her you don’t want her to go down this path you want the best for your daughter.

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