Can someone help put my mind at ease

I had my transfer on Nov 5th and although I’ve been told to not take a test until tomorrow when I tell the clinic, my impatience has got the better of me!
I’ve been feeling symptoms that I had with my daughter so I’m feeling positive about it and have been from the start. However, my mother in law has twisted it and planted a horrible seed of doubt into our heads that the tests are ‘false positive’ and ‘I’m a liar and not really pregnant’. Has anyone else experienced this and can put mine and my husband’s minds at rest? 💕 (the last strip test is 13DPT)

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Well and truly pregnany. Congrats :)

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I tested early on mine too, one was about 4 days early- both tested positive and both were really positive.
Congratulations 🎉👣

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Definitely looks positive to me! Congratulations!!

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Sorry to say this but your mother in law seems just like a jealous person that doesn't want yall to be happy. But ma'am those are definitely positive congratulations. Enjoy your pregnancy and ignore the negativity.

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I tested a week early and got positive. I’m now 33 weeks x

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I tested positive 7DPT and am 26 weeks. Definitely not a false positive!

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If your lines are getting darker then that is your HCG rising. If you took a one off test then it would be inconclusive. You should always wait for the official test day, and for bloods but not doing so doesn’t make you a liar, you are passing on the knowledge you have so far and she should consider you involving her with gratitude. Sure, acknowledging the science to safeguard your feelings is helpful, but Fertility is hard enough without pure negativity for the sake of it. It’s rather unkind.
Enjoy looking at your test lines and passing that information to your clinic. It’s hardly going to be negative tomorrow, you have a test day to ensure the trigger is out of your system and your own HCG is present, and it would be zero line tomorrow if your HCG hasn’t taken over, so highly unlikely, right?!. So…Congratulations! Keep us updated! X

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I started testing at 3dp5dt and started getting positives at late 4dp5dt

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