Cheating?

Would you guys consider this cheating? My boyfriend was away on a work trip. He had been drinking (not drunk but pretty buzzed) and he snapped a girl a picture of him laying in his hotel bed showing his bare legs and underwear. To preface, he had previously sent her a snap of what he was watching and it had his foot in it and she responded with “a foot pic? For free?!” He immediately apologized to her and had told her he was a little drunk and didn’t mean anything by that snap and she didn’t respond in any kind of sexual way. They also removed each other from snap. This happened on Halloween. I found out two days ago from the girl. I confronted him about it and their stories line up and both agreed that there was no ill intent behind it. When asked why he hid it from me, he said him and I had just gotten back together and he didn’t want a stupid drunk mistake to ruin it. We got back together on Oct 16 and this happened on Oct 31. I don’t know how to feel. What do you guys think?

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I believe if he wanted to cheat he would have! He innocent! Obviously the girl just wanted money

I honestly would be upset, because why are you talking to other females for? That’s how it starts …

she’s a friend at a game store we both play at so I don’t question that part at least.

he’s the one that sent the snaps to her, she had responded with something funny bc people sell feet pics so she was like “a foot pic, for free?!”

I’m pretty laid back but would be fuming at this tbh

I would be raging cause hes clearly got another girl on his mind or else why would he send that pic he clearly cant be trusted when he’s got a drink in him

Mmm he hid it from you. Regardless of the intent at the time, he intentionally hid it from you which is micro-cheating at the very least. But also, in his undies? Nah, the intent was more than what he said but maybe the outcome of what happened wasn’t what he hoped and now regrets it. If she didn’t feel bad, she wouldn’t have said anything.

Hang on, I am confused.

You got back together? Why did you break up?

He sent a foot pic, and she responded, and it was an innocent mistake.

He sent a pic of his legs and underwear?

Are these 2 separate pictures?

Like he sent her the foot by accident and then sent the other one.

Like, I'm so confused.

The foot, zero issue. The underwear is a huge no from me like wtf.

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