wanna hear peoples experiences

In the same situation with the same age gap. Super nervous and just hoping for the best 😩

My little ones are 13 months apart, and it was quite difficult the first year.
The first 3 months are quite easy because the baby will be sleeping most of the time (hopefully) or just laying in the play gym or something so you can give the attention to your first after that I found it exhausting just because my second was waking up every hour in the night!!
But it does get easier around 7/8 month when they do have more of a routine.
The big advice I would give is to get out of the house, to play group or soft plays or anything, because it helps regulate your oldest and helps you to get some fresh air.
And also I found that they do behave better when outside.