Advice please be kind.

Is it wrong if I consented to sex but not for the man to finish inside but they did it anyways. And now I’m pregnant because of it?

For context he was also on top so I couldn’t do much.

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There are emergency contraception pills so u dont get preg after unprotected sex. If he didn’t pull out they u know his semen is inside of u and that comes with consequence .

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that’s not what I’m asking :)

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Whats the purpose of your question exactly? Everyone would tell you its wrong you know its wrong. The man clearly didn’t care or doesnt have the brain capacity to do so.

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in that situation i think it’s important to make it clear what you expect, so it would’ve been the right thing to do to let him know you’re happy to have sex but he must pull out.

if you knew that he came inside and didn’t take the precautions to avoid pregnancy like the morning after pill, then i personally believe a lot of the responsibility for that goes down to you.

the relationship between you and him also matters, if he was loving and caring enough he would’ve probably be the one to remind you take the precautions and been cautious himself

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I had told him not to it was still after he had told me that he did I was in such big shock I had asked him why he done it , his response to my asking was he was in the moment and didn’t think about it at that time i know I should of got the morning after pill his ever I get really bad blood clots and I’ve also had dvts but that not the reason why I didn’t take it I was just so shocked and was out of my self

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If you made it clear you didn't want him to finish inside you and he still did it it's actually considered sexual assault

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hi yes and he even admitted he knew I said no but didn’t think in the moment only until after he did it he felt bad. I told his mum today and she said men will be men and I just basically need to get over it.

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