Lying family

Hey ladies I need advice

How do you go about somebody claiming that your two year old son bite their two year old daughter?

Long story short my auntie said my son bite her daughter on the face
when her daughter got bite it was on a Monday but she didn’t text me about the bite mark or swollen of the bite mark until 2 days later after being here at my house washing and dying her clothes from Monday til Wednesday, her daughter was at my house on Monday while she was at work she came and picked her daughter up I never seen a bite mark when I was putting her coat on she came in my house while doing pick up and she never mentioned anything to me about a bite mark until Wednesday she came over the next day still no bite mark she never sent me a picture or video of the bite mark she claimed her daughter had she then says that all theses people seen her daughter face from Monday til Wednesday (they all didn’t notice a bite mark til Wednesday) she then says she don’t want her daughter around some kids that’s not disciplined like I told her im not doing thing to my child who’s 2 and who has never bitten no one before he goes to daycare and they never say to me that he is putting his mouth on someone putting things in his mouth I can understand but putting his mouth on people I’ve never heard or seen before

How would you guys go about this situation?

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I can't imagine your kid biting her kids face and the kid not crying or causing a scene somehow. Plus the missing bite mark. It all does seem made up.
It sounds like you were doing her a favor, does she also do favors for you? What issues will come up if you just say "ok bye"
Tell her that a 2yr old cannot understand discipline days after an incident. It must be handled in the moment. If you or she see it happen again, then it can be addressed at that time.

It won’t be a next time because I cut her out my life and no she doesn’t do favors for me we just started being around when that happened and I said the same thing if she would have got bite around me I would have heard something happen he was hitting and pulling on her but I stopped him from doing that while we both were sitting there and I also let her know that I will not be disciplining my child for something happened days before you even contracted me about it he doesn’t remember what happened why would I do that no and plus everybody would have seen it Monday and not on Wednesday

I would just let it go and just not have her around anymore. If at some point you are ready to let her back into your life id have nanny cams or those pet cameras that record or only meet in public places like the park.

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Is this normal?

Is it just my husband that does this? He is able to work from home via his computer and in the mornings and evenings he is on there doing his job. When he is done for the day he tends to stay in the room and either play video games or watch something. He will occasionally come out and play with the girls for a few minutes and that’s it but when I really need him he says he is busy. My daughters are both 1 year old now and I am just wondering how much involvement should he have with them now?
Idk if this is the norm or not…..

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-A very overwhelmed and anxious to move mama 😓

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