do y’all give your kids valentines gifts??

i’ve always given my kids (7yr old boy & 2yr old girl) a stuffed animal, a balloon & a little heart box of chocolates or some type of candy for valentine’s day. saw someone post they thought it was weird to give your kids stuff for valentine’s day so i thought i’d ask other people lol.

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.
Add a comment
Avatar

I will be. I always (and still do) get valentines gifts from my parents

Avatar

same. my mom gave me a box of chocolates every year even when i became a grown adult lol

Avatar

I love that

Avatar

Always my mom did it for us and even did it til she passed I give my kids my partner and sometimes myself valentines gifts

Avatar

I will for my 8 year old daughter as last year she was really excited about it. My 15 year old son is unbothered.

Avatar

I feel like in the UK this isn’t as much of a thing and that Valentine’s Day is more for couples.

Avatar

that’s fair i guess. i personally just view it as a holiday to celebrate anyone you love honestly. it’s one of my favorites, i try to make it as special for my kids too. i love making little goody bags for his school mates and helping him put together valentines for them as well, i guess it just brings back good memories for me as a kid and i want that for them as well.

Avatar

I do, I think it's cute, just something small like chocolates and a teddy with a card. I like doing little things like that

Avatar

I don’t even give my husband a gift so I won’t be giving the kids one. We all have enough ‘stuff’ in a small house. Id rather have the space and celebrate loving my family all year rather than feel forced to buy stuff by society and consumerism for a day.

Avatar

that wasn’t really what the post was about. it was kind of a yes or no, not you trying to make it negative. :/

Avatar

I do a card & a little chocolate

Avatar

No i believe Valentines are for partners not kids. We put some heart decorations and have cake all together, but exchange gifts only with Hubby 🙂

Avatar

Card and a bar of chocolate £3 and there little happy faces is worth it ❤️

Avatar

My dad always bought us girls chocolate roses and my mom would get my brother heart shaped Reese’s UNTIL we found our spouses so we felt extra loved❤️

Avatar

No but I will this year I love the thought of doing this 💕💕

Avatar

Yes I love doing valentine gifts! My mom always did it growing up, even as we became adults. I make little valentine bags for my son’s daycare classmates as well. This year I’m doing bubbles and a bag of heart shaped veggie straws (they’re 3). I order my son little personalized valentines as well with his photo, they’re adorable. I’ll send them in the mail just to our immediate families.

It’s also a fun day in the school where I work. Where I live in the US definitely seems like Valentine’s Day has often just been for love in general but also has that romantic component of course.

Avatar

Not gifts so much as treats. I like to celebrate but I don’t like every holiday to involve gift giving

Avatar

We do every year for Valentines day. I want my daughter to see how she should be treated when she's old enough to have a valentine. We buy her a balloon, chocolates and my husband buys her roses so he can say he was the first man to buy her flowers

Avatar

I never did before, but my daughter is 5 now so I feel like she’ll appreciate it. My mom gave us valentines every year as a kid and I still remember it 😊

Avatar

My mom always did valentines for us, so I grew up thinking of valentines as more of an all types of love day (romantic, friendship, family). So I give my kids gifts too! I want them to think of valentines the same way I do. It's my favorite holiday and I never dreaded it when single. I had friends who only knew it as a romantic love holiday so they were excluded when they didn't have a partner, and they loathed the holiday and made them feel sad that day.

(Actually, it wasn't till college that I realized not everyone viewed it the way I did. So on Valentines Day, I texted our friends group chat wishing them all a Happy Valentines because they're my friends and I love them, and one guy replied super pissed off at me because I was the only one in a relationship and he thought I was doing it to be patronizing 🫠 he said it was actually singles awareness day 🙄...)

Avatar

To add to my comment, it's not crazy expensive gifts. Usually I get them a small stuffed animal from Walmart (they're literally like $2 in the valentines section), a valentines book, and a candy. It all costs less than $10

Avatar

I didn't last year (my son was 4 months old) but I had bought him a Valentine's day outfit. This year I bought him a Valentine's dau sweater and was going to get him a little stuffed animal or something. My husband and I don't really do big gits, just something small, chocolates, a nice dinner and flowers, so I'm going to include him in the tradition.

Avatar

Ofc! I love excuses to give my children little gifts lol. And I love pink

Avatar

Whoever thinks giving ur kids something for Valentine's Day u need serious help and maybe ur parents didn't love u enough . Valentine Day, yes I get my son stuff for Valentine's Day because I love that boy and he's my best friend and we have been through a lot together while he's been alive . And even Valentine's Day Christmas Easter Halloween doesn't matter what it is. I gift my child . That little boy is my world

Avatar

Yeah, I’m extra and I think it’s cute 😂

Avatar

My mum normally buys me a card and a little gift from her but also from my angel babies 💝

Avatar

My mom would get my sisters and I a small box of chocolates and we would have a nice dinner when we were younger. It stopped once we were in late middle/ early HS. My husband and I get each other cards, usually the funnier the better, and we split a box of chocolates or some other treat. Then we make a special dinner at home.
This is our first year with a baby and I got him a valentine outfit and a valentine themed teething toy (he'll be about 10 months old by then)! When he's older I'd like to do the same as my parents did for me: small box of chocolates/ small treat with a funny card and a special dinner. Do whatever makes you happy! 😍

Avatar

I make her a cute breakfast and give them a new book with a vday theme.

Avatar

I will be. My parents always got me a box of chocolates and sometimes a little stuffed animal and I loved it.

Read more on Peanut

Trending

in our community

Has anyone else had issues with their friends that aren't pregnant or have kids?

I have a friend at work and we've become really close over the years. But ever since I become pregnant she just doesn't understand anything I'm going through which is fine except for the fact that the past few days I have been exhausted physically and socially. We have been helping another friend out for about a month now and we've had to keep him entertained as he's going through a rough time right now and it's drained me socially . my friend at work is frustrated because I'm not talking a lot and I'm exhausted and she doesn't understand why and I'm just curious if anybody else has had issues with friends that are not going to the same thing or have gone through the same thing as you connecting with you because she's literally mad at me. She stopped talking to me at work today and I just don't understand what to do.

Avatar

1

6

Friends

I’ve been on this app for almost 5 years now I still can’t find one friend. I just need a friend. I’m so fucking lonely.

Avatar

12

Spicy chat

Anyone up for a spicy chat, I’m horny

Avatar

5

5

31 weeks pregnant and lonely

How to deal with loneliness in pregnancy when your boyfriend goes out with his friends drinking 😅🥲 I only have three friends, two are never really free and one lives back in Liverpool and has her own set of friends where she goes to raves and goes on holiday with them lol. My boyfriend is going out soon for the night as it’s sunny and I’ll just be sat here crying like every single time! When does it stop 🤣

Avatar

2

9

Why is it so hard it to make friends?!

Panic attacks and anxiety attacks are so horrible!

I’m in Woodstock, Georgia and so hard to connect and find friends a just enjoy the park with and motherhood.

Avatar

1

6

Anyone up for a challenge ??

Is anyone interested in joining the Pilates with Izzy 25-day challenge?

We can share our updates, progress, and photos here to keep each other motivated and accountable. Let’s support one another and celebrate our success together 💓

If you’d like to take part, post your starting picture below. let’s do this together 🤩

Planning to start this Monday… who’s in? 💪

Avatar

1

9

Read more on Peanut