No money

Hi girls,

I really don’t know what to do.
I’m back to work working part time 22.5 hours and I get paid £1000 a month, my overdraft is £1000 so when I get paid I literally don’t have any extra money spare.
My mortgage is £500 and with all the added extra bills of council tax water electric etc I’m left with only £200 spare.
My car broke down this week the day I got paid so I’m left with nothing.
I’m not eligible for universal credit because my partners name is still on the mortgage.

Does anyone have any advice to give me of how to get out of this situation.

My son is priority he’s only 1 so any extra cash I have goes on him always.

I’m really worried this month as I don’t have any money to keep to us going.

thanks in advance

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