Losing friends

Me and my partner haven’t had the greatest of relationships since o fell pregnant however since baby has been here things are 1000x better! One of my ex friends comes across very jealous because he has actually changed. She never wants to hear about anything to do with him and will brush the conversation off and be rude however if its anything to do with her she wants me to sit and listen and give her advice and ive had enough ive finally snapped but she makes out its my fault but i know shes not happy because we used to do stuff all thd time and since my daughter has been. Orn we obviously don’t which is normal. I think she thought shed was going to be here every day helping me but its not like that. Anyone else have this issue ?

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Unfortunately stuff like that happens when you have kids. You’ll find the people who are meant to be in your life and who isn’t. This sounds like a friend that isn’t worth your time anyway, best of luck to you X

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Having my baby made me realise who my true friends are. The ones that stick around no matter what are the friends you want for life and the friends you want to bring up your baby around. I was upset at first with some I lost along the way however now I’m in a happy place with friends I know I can 100% rely on x

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