short mum problems!😂

This is a very random problem that I never thought about until now, I’m too short to lower my baby into her cot😂 I’m 5” and getting her to sleep in her cot bed is proving to be a nightmare as I can’t reach down to put her in smoothly! and she’s only 6 months so it’s on the highest setting, let alone when I have to lower it! Any other short mums got any hacks for a smooth transition? I nearly end up in the cot with her as my feet dangle in the air trying to lower her in😂

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.
Add a comment
Avatar

Maybe a step stool?? Get a good one as ypull need it later when ypur child is growing up 🥰 This is absolutely hilariously adorable and i hope this helps!! Congratulations on your new blessing

Avatar

good shout! I’m gonna have to, I never considered my height when buying her cot🤦🏼‍♀️🤣

Avatar

Following cause I’m 4,9 😂 I am still okay putting him in the bed but soon I’ll need to lower the mattress

Avatar

Floor bed! I'm 5'11 and my baby used to wake every time I attempted to put him in his crib so I dread to think how you feel🙈

Avatar

@Katie exactly what I was going to suggest. I'm 5'10 and struggled on holiday in the travel cot. In baby's floor bed, I just lay down with her to nurse to sleep then roll out 😂

Avatar

i’m 5’2 and i have a stool from IKEA, i had it anyway to get stuff out the top wardrobe/kitchen cupboards that are high and it’s a god send hahaha x

Avatar

love this!! But I have a dog that will lick the baby at any opportunity so need her off the floor away from the dog😂

Avatar

would you not have a baby gate/not allow the dog into the baby's room? We're looking at getting a dog and they wouldn't be able to get to baby to lick her with the gate and door to her room. A crib isn't necessarily the answer to separate dog from baby - recently a baby was killed by the family dog after it somehow jumped into the crib.

Avatar

we have a miniature sausage dog who can’t even get on the sofa without assistance so this isn’t a concern for us thankfully!

Avatar

Had this issue too, then I got pregnant again. Trying to put my 1 year old in the cot while being 8 months pregnant was impossible 😂

Avatar

5ft here too! We had to change to a floor bed once the cot was on the lowest setting as it was just impossible.

Avatar

@Tia I have a dog but she's kept out of the babies room at night??

Avatar

@Carys that's exactly what we do.. it's what I'm doing as I'm typing this🤣🤣

Avatar

so is our dog, she sleeps in a crate :) I’ll try with a foot stool first but a floor bed defo isn’t off the cards!

Avatar

Floor bed mamas, what age did you do this from?

Avatar

@Tia it was a sausage dog that was in the recent incident, how it got in the crib I have no idea when (as you say) most can't even jump on a sofa!

Baby has been in a floor bed since she moved out of the next-to-me crib in our room at 10mo. Would've been sooner but we hadn't got her room ready yet (we moved the week she was born) and then she got poorly with a fever so I wanted her close. It's done wonders for her/our sleep as she has so much space to wriggle and she keeps herself occupied for a bit on waking with the few toys in her room before calling out to be got.

Avatar

oh really that’s crazy! Thankfully our dog is crate trained and sleeps downstairs at night so it would be more for my peace of mind during the day if I forgot to close the stair gate/door or something like that :) but when she’s a bit bigger I’m defo open to it! Baby girl is only 6mo at the moment, but she’s outgrowing her next to me fast so she’s got to go in her own room soon 🥹

Avatar

I just tippy toe 💁🏻‍♀️ but my cot is quite low anyway. It’s just the modern one w fixed sides but I it’s got 3 levels I don’t lower it all the way I lower it on the next level down from the top and when I need to lower it again I will. First change of level was 5m

Avatar

🙋🏽‍♀️ 5ft 1… I feel your pain. Was worse when I was pregnant with my second as I literally couldn’t put my first in his cot. Currently the cot for my second is on his highest, but soon going to the mid which will be a challenge.
I have to put him in standing so he can sit himself down 😂

Avatar

Haha I’m 5ft 2 and I have always had the same problem 😂 I could just about manage for a while because I’d lob my boobs over the edge and they would give me a few inches extra wiggle room to practically throw myself in there to grab my kids but in the end as they got heavy I realised I had no chance 😂

Avatar

@Tia my baby has been on a floor bed since 9m but I wish I did it sooner! After he grew out his next to me at 5 months (he's a really tall boy) I tried for weeks and weeks to get him in his crib and he jist never took to it so we bed shared for a few months so I could get some sleep! Transitioning to a floor bed has been amazing for re-settling- my boy still wakes every 1-3hrs.. how I'm still functioning I have no idea!

Read more on Peanut

Trending

in our community

Wdy think of this for a toddler to learn word construction?

I'm open to anything else to start teaching him to read and write. He's 3!

Avatar

3

12

Do men really enjoy fellatio?

Been together more than 10 years, but it's been a while since he even seemed remotely interested in me getting on my knees, or vice versa so to speak. I think it was once last year. Must be something I am doing wrong 🤔. Generally everything else in that department is great and we have two young kids with no extra support, so it's quite surprising we can't keep our hands off each other but may need to try new things. It's basically 2 positions each time with some foreplay.

Avatar

6

Vanilla extract

Has anyone used alcohol free vanilla in their babies formal to help them drink?
I’m 100% sure my baby refuses her bottles as she doesn’t like the taste of it!

Just anxious to try it, don’t want her to get used to it and then refuse bottles again after two weeks of using (correct me if I’m wrong but I’ve read you use it for 2 weeks max)

TIA 🙂

Avatar

32

Car seat crying

My 6 month old PANICS the second I put him in a car seat and screams, cries, chokes and recently even projectile vomited on a 14 minute drive. It’s gotten to the point I don’t even bring him out unless it’s to a doctors appointment. I’m a stay at home mom with no family in my state and it has been very isolating. We’ve tried 3 different car seats with no improvement. Has anyone had a baby who hated the car seat? Any advice? This started at 3 months. I will add it does seem worse when he’s tired. He does cry on every trip though. He only contact naps and co sleeps so he reaches for me and will not sleep in the car seat.

Avatar

13

Naps

How is everyone doing for naps?

Little one is 9 months old and will have 2 half hour naps and one solid 1 hour - 2 hour nap a day

Then settles for night around 9pm. Wakes for a feed around 3:30 then sleeps until 6-7

Avatar

3

Sex post C section

Hi ladies I’m 4 weeks 5 days postpartum and I had a C section. I’m not bleeding properly anymore just some brownish discharge stuff that starts on and off. I’d like to do the deed with my partner; is it okay to do so or shall I wait the full 6 weeks. I feel up for it but also worried because the advice is 6-8 weeks.

Avatar

8

Read more on Peanut