Explosive poop & nappy leaking

My daughter decides to do a poop everytime she’s in the car seat. Most of the time it’s explosive and comes out the sides/or front and back. I’m changing her outfit twice a day and it’s really stressing me😩 I’ve tried sizing down. Tried Aldi nappies, boots, Tesco and now using Pampers premium but none of them are stopping the leaks. Going out of my mind here and don’t understand what’s going wrong. Has anyone else experienced this or have any advice please???
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Are you making sure that when her nappy is on, that the sides of it aren’t tucked in? My little one used to have so many explosions until I started untucking the sides of his nappies around by his bum! I also use Morrisons own brand x

Get some cloth diaper covers and put that over the disposable. As a mum that used cloth exclusively I didn’t even get one blowout- not one. They have real elastics, like same one on our bathers, nothing can escape those. Try Amazon. I don’t trust any disposable to hold in a huge blowout, I do trust the cloth.

So she was in size 4 Aldi and this is when it first started happening out the legs, the legs seem to have quite a lot of room for it to leak out. So went back down to size 3 pampers. Which also seem a little loose but not as bad. Still not fixed the situation though 😩

Always pull frilly sides bits out yes.

oooo these look great, where are they from please?

Amazon OP. Omg the girls’ sets are super cute 😍 I have the “best Mum” one

https://www.amazon.com/Mama-Koala-Diapers-Babies-Inserts/dp/B0D941Y9K3/ref=mp_s_a_1_18_maf_2?crid=1HO7SK187EWLG&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.QU95NH-Gv4Q3OA92zzQ0hbls-6N9Z9tRvV88VYJv5yeulmKwF70cvvsTJVi6TXSkF7oCbNO4uE-2qLhrhgnfDNzGvLuWx55NnSB5IRRFYT2dgJq-3kfV5Usl37se31qLi135BwSLbca8Rhs9ZqrZG9hxjPCHUa8QaA4aKQyw_vdEt0Vu4mIOUqTUlgWeN8pki8aEfCsac3hiqWper2VBOQ.jrMd5XbOkoT9w5xb6rocSbEK0yl9iaiACcWEZ0ZH8XE&dib_tag=se&keywords=cloth%2Bdiaper%2Bcovers&qid=1743110882&sprefix=cloth%2Bdiaper%2Bcover%2Caps%2C390&sr=8-18&th=1&psc=1

Absolutely in the same boat. It’s been happening since January. I’ve tried all different brands of nappies too and have tried sizing up. Have tried using a reusable nappy over the top of a normal nappy but it’s so bulky under her clothes.

thank you!! I’m going to have a browse x

I bought a bambino mio all in one reusable nappy from Amazon but not entirely sure how to use it 🤣 do you recommend using disposable or washable liners? It says to change after every 2-4 hours is that the whole nappy or just the liner? Because how would this work at nighttime? Sorry for all the questions x

thank you so much for the info! I think I need to be brave and make the change to cloth to try and stop the car blowouts. Just with needing to change more frequently how would this work when out and about for the day, like how do you deal with/store the used nappy until back at home? x

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Is it bad of me to think this or no?

My husband has been abroad for work (1 day and exploring for 1 day) for 2 and a half days which means I’ve had both kids (1 year and 4 year old) for 2 and a half days plus cooking, cleaning, taking them to clubs, bedtimes!
He came home late afternoon and said I’m so tired, I just need to chill. I said can you wash up whilst I sort kids dinner out, he said he’ll do it later which means he won’t do it and I’ll end up doing it so I said no do it now please otherwise I’ll end up doing it and he said well you have been home and I’ve been away so you’ve just been relaxing.
Don’t know what planet he is on but having the kids alone for 2.5 days is not relaxing. I was stressed!

When he was away, I did miss him and wanted him to come back but now he’s back, I want him to go away again😂
Is that bad?

Post partum dad

I have a 2 month old. A few weeks ago my husband crashed out because he didn't feel like he was getting to bond with her. I started exclusively breastfeeding around that time and honestly didnt see the big deal. Baby and I left for a few days and when we got back home, everything was fine. He was extremely hands-on. He helped with my meals, her bedtime, bath, stories.....for a few weeks it was great. Then he randomly sounds depressed af. He says our lo is better off without him, he wants to sleep all day , he asks me not to watch tv then tried playing a video game. He refused to reply to me when i asked any follow-up questions. Then he woke up our baby trying to race me to the bathroom first thing in the morning . He's doing a weird mix of crying, trying, and giving up. Im starting to feel like I cant handle him not being able to handle life with baby and just want to be alone. Are there resources for men?

Feeding

My son is coming up to five months and I just started giving him oatmeal and rice cereal. When can you start trying veggies or fruits? I only give him the oatmeal or rice cereal once a day right now which is what the paediatrician had said to do. I’m just curious to when anybody tried anything else with their kids cause my son eats a lot of formula and he’s VERY curious when I eat.

Really bothered by this

A friend posted this and it really bothers me because that is exactly how she parents her kid, and it's rather unfortunate because when our kids hang out together, her kid has a meltdown at least 5x within an hour. We have know them for years and it's only gotten worse. My kids will concede to hers, because they don't want to see their friend crying, but it sucks because they give up so much of their toys and enjoyment to keep the peace. We aren't hanging out as much anymore but it's rather sad to think she doesn't intervene more in her child tantrums and just let's it slide

My 2 year old won’t eat nothing but snacks

Is this normal ? He won’t even try anything I eat .. he really only like pizza fries and spaghetti… nuggets and snacks bananas some other fruit but like anything else he won’t eat if try but I don’t want to force him I’m just I feel like bad I mean he isn’t losing weight I breastfeed mostly still

Is this normal

Let’s say you’re at a softplay with your 2 year old, and some friends & their toddlers.
You buy your 2 year old a kids meal - chicken nuggets, beans, and chips. They’re very happy with it and have almost eaten it all.
They’re sat at the table, fork in hand, consistently eating, and have one chicken nugget left.
Your adult friend comes over from behind you, picks up the last chicken nugget, and eats it.
There was no indication that your child wasn’t going to eat it, and they didn’t ask. They just took it with no warning and ate it right in front of you and your toddler.
How you reacting?