Success stories for BD once near what you thought was OV and got a BFP?

So kind of what the title says. My other half is struggling due to antidepressants to BD but we did manage to once this month near what I believe to be my ovulation day. I had pains 2 days later which I normally get around ovulation. Obviously (no pun intended) it’s a major shot in the dark but I wondered if anyone else has any success stories of getting pregnant after a similar situation?

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Our first baby I thought I ovu on day 14 just because i had read that’s the most likely day but I got my BFP later than my missed period day so must have ovulated a few days after.

We have ‘accidentally’ got pregnant before because what I asssumed was ovu day happened later than expected xx

how many days before did you BD for your first?? I really pray it happens for me this month ☹️

We BD regularly before day 14 but I don’t think I ovulated until like day 17 so there was a 3 day gap x

ahhh we managed to 3 days before what I believed to have been so here’s just hoping I guess!

There is still a chance, happy thoughts and good luck! X

My partner struggled due to pressure and we had sex the day before ovulation, just the once. She is now 5 months old! 🩷

this gives me hope! I had sex one day before clue predicted my ovulation but I am going off the pains I had two days later so it’d be 3 days prior we had sex. Hate not knowing but I’m just going to see it as I’m out this month which should ease the pressure

Have you tried ovulation tests to pinpoint your ovulation exactly? X

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One and done… or not?

32ftm. I’m starting to feel so much pressure to have another baby soon as I wean from breastfeeding so they can be close in age and be friends, but I don’t feel ready for pregnancy and newborn trenches again 😭 my husband and I are all we’ve got. Having just one baby without a village has been really tough. Am I being unrealistic wanting another one soon?

I'm so not meant to be a mother.

My kids won't listen to me get into stuff when they know they aren't supposed to. Telling me no all the time. Only listen to their dad. Laughs when I correct them. I spend most of my time yelling at them because they don't want to listen to me at all. My husband said that I shouldn't have kids. And I am believing him on it. I was never meant to be a mother now. I won't hurt my kids I just want to disappear and make everyone else's lives better without me.

Baby #2??

I really want baby number 2 and am thinking of doing it via IUI as a solo mama!
Has anyone had any experiences with it 👀

Tests

So I had a blood test at the drs bc I keep getting positive tests when the blood test was negative what could this mean? Hubby says the tests are negative and said he can’t see anything. Negative image down below.

Am I pregnant?

I lightly spotted almost 5 days ago, which is not common for me before my period.
My period was supposed to come today. I should have tested in the morning but its 5:30pm.
Is there a second line??

Anyone have this happen before?

We were not trying to conceive, used protection and had sex on week 2 of my cycle (accidentally on my peak ovulation day). Week 3 we had Flu A. Week 4 my period did not come (it’s very regular). I tested and it was negative (2 different brands).
What should have been week 2 of my next cycle (now 6 weeks post last period), I had light red/ pink spotting for one day when I wiped. The following week, I tested again, still negative, but this time almost all the dye was in the negative space, which I’ve never seen happen before. The area where it shows one horizontal line for negative and a plus sign for positive, the horizontal line was super faded at the 3 minute mark, and the negative vertical line in the next window was VERY dark. Now I’m on week 8 of all this, period did not show up yesterday. Nothing in my life has changed (no additional stress, no other illness, no changes in diet or exercise, etc).

Has anyone gone through this and NOT been pregnant? I’m super nervous as we thought we were done having kids.

PS. I know I should go get a blood test, does anyone know if urgent care will do that? I’m past being convinced by a pee test.