Midwife

Hey girls please help me out or advise! I don’t have a gp at the moment so I haven’t been able to have my midwife appointments but I’ve had my hospital ones and now have a family nurse (techianlly midwife that comes round)so do I still need a midwife/gp ?
I’m 19+3 weeks

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you need a midwife, most midwives aren’t at GP’s, mine isn’t, is there a self referral thing for your area that you can do for a midwife? i had to do a midwife self referral for sussex when i found out i was pregnant and you should be having midwife appointments xx

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yeah I’ve done the self referral thing and I had one appointment and haven’t seen/heard of her since and haven’t been able to call, maybe might have to see if I can catch up on it xx

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yes definitely catch up on it, some midwives are absolutely useless but you need those appointments they listen to heartbeat etc, hopefully you get somewhere xxx

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I’d try and get registered with a GP ASAP. there’s things such as repeat prescriptions, treatment for urine infections, UTIs etc that the hospital team would usually request from your GP. As you are pregnant you would normally be a priority for patient registration and once you’ve put your forms in usually you’ll be on the system within a week

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I have a family nurse, and you still need to have a midwife. A family nurse is someone who takes over a health visitor. You have them until your baby turns 2 they keep check of your baby's growth and development. If you have a family nurse you don't have a health visitor. But you need to have a midwife xx

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Definitely catch up with them , as mentioned, those midwife appointments are important for early intervention if it's needed. They'll be checking all sorts of things like your blood pressure, bloods for vitamins/minerals, proteins, etc. in urine, fundal height to check their growth, and of course, your baby's heartbeat all of which are important!

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You will definitely still need a midwife, if you ring your areas community midwives and tell them you don’t have a GP but give them one you plan to register with they will fit you in and also help you register there if needed☺️x

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I don’t think midwife is in anyway connected to a gp, I don’t have a gp, but I still had all my midwife appointment through the self referral with nhs

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I had my vaccinations through my GP.

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We are going to a hospital which isn’t the allocated one from our GP so we have a midwife at the hospital rather than GP, you should still be allocated someone there for your appointments.

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The midwife is not connected to your GP. You need to fill in a self referral to your local midwife service.

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I didn’t have a gp when I fell pregnant with my first son they’re more likely to let you register if you’re pregnant I would highly recommend registering with go bc you will need to register baby with a go for all of the vaccines and appointments it’s better to have one there just in case

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