Loneliness

I have recently feel like I’m falling into
Depression with being lonely. My husband works early morning to late night to make it possible for me to stay home with our little one and I feel bad for being sad because he does everything for me and my little one but I get so lonely and feel like I have no one. I have friends but they all have that one specific person that you know they have an amazing connection with and I don’t have that person and it gets very depressing. Maybe I’m just sensitive. I have good days where I am super happy and then I have my bad days that once they baby is put to bed I sit on my balcony and just think about what I can do to get out of this position. I have severe anxiety about just walking up to people and saying hi. Lol working on it but it doesn’t help my situation. I’m holding myself back.

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I am in the same position right now, today was a hard day. It’s hard for me to make friends because I am introvert and my friends are living their life, seems like I am always alone and I feel bad for my daughter because I don’t want to her to think that it’s her fault, I love her more then everything and I want to feel better for her. You are not alone

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I am the same I never want my daughter to feel like it’s her fault. It just gets very alone being home all day and never being around other adults.

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The great thing about that is that it only takes one person. You could go through 100 different people that aren't right, but it only takes one. Honestly, it doesn't take 100. It's maybe more like 20-30, you just have to be open to that one. Mine is a former coworker ten years older with no kids, but she's a talker... We talked for 2.5 hours today. It's mostly about her job, her, neighbors, her hoa... I tell her my stuff too, but it's nice to just have someone who can talk forever and doesn't mind my kids in the background. Get creative to see who your person is. Call some people and see who responds....

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