Is he cheating?

I would just assume he’s cheated with the background on him.
&Why not confront him on his multiple disrespectful acts toward you?

He probably got some kind of happy ending. Absolutely cheating.

300 is not just a massage….

Ah you clearly need to leave your husband. Sleeping with sex workers and paying $300 there but leaving out the massage as a whole is sketch. No massage cost that much unless it’s Beverly Hills. He has an addiction that will never change.

Most really nice high end massages don’t cost that much. And I agree about the Venmo thing :( Many sex rings, brothel type situations, disguise themselves as massage parlors. I’m sorry to hear this, but definitely concerning for you. Please, as others have said, get yourself tested for your health and babies health ASAP. Please confront him.

History of cheating and visiting sex workers and you’ve continued to sleep with him and now are giving him a baby? 😕 I don’t think your worry should be about anything but working your way out of his life.

I know of women who have picked up so many infections from cheating men it’s ruined their whole reproductive system etc men that cheat giving their babies herpes and all sorts.

My advice, good riddance to bad rubbish. Start afresh with someone who has some self respect

Leave him please. That’s all anyone’s gonna tell you at this point, just bc you have a kid with a person doesn’t mean you have to stay with them. Especially considering the type of “husband” he is, sorry you’ve went thru this stuff but definitely say something and find someone you can stay with

please run

places definitely charge $300 for massages but with his history and the reviews of the place and the fact he hid it from you definitely shows it was not a massage

He has a history of cheating and being with sex workers yet you’re still with him?!! Make it make sense. Leave asap before u get a std and your poor baby gets something too.

Please leave 💕✨

Leave him! Do you really want to risk the health of you and your unborn child?! I wouldn’t. Especially things like herpies if you get it for the first time while pregnant it can cause so many issue for baby. Like deformations and blindness and all kinds of shit. Even after they are formed fully! I would def be requesting a std test right away for yourself. I wouldn’t be with someone who I know has frequented sex workers. Just no. Just be single parent. You wouldn’t want your child thinking this kind of behavior is okay to put up with woukd you? I always think to myself is my partner a reflection of someone I would want my daughter to date?

this!!!!! he is literally risking their lives and all for sex?!! actually sickening what could happen bc of his actions. leave and take that man for all he’s worth!! if he can afford sex workers and happy ending massages, he can afford child support!

also, why would a reputable business have him pay through venmo….? they wouldn’t. i’m so sorry but he’s definitely cheating:(

Absolutely! He’s on a work visa and I was on a dependent visa, he started cheating after we confirmed the pregnancy, he had lost jobs, we are in a very bad financial situation, he started seeing escorts right after he got a new job and I was 8 weeks pregnant. Now after knowing all this I’ve travelled to my country to be with my parents without confronting him cause I don’t wanna have any drama especially with the pregnancy and no energy to deal with him so I just moved out quoting my health isn’t good, so my health is safe at the moment (thanks for all your support 💕)
I feel so much of rage against him and wanna know what legal options do I’ve to report him? I know US has strict laws regarding paying for sex or prostitution, I want him to lose his job, visa status and be nowhere in his career
I left my good paying job back & career in my country to be with him
What kind of action can i take? That will have serious and immediate consequences? I want him to regret his choices

The best way to make him regret his choice is to just disappear from his life. Start afresh. He will get what’s coming to him.
Just find peace in your freedom. Cry and be mad as much as you need to but please don’t go back to him.
File for divorce, it should be pretty straight forward for you especially if you got receipts

I normally would never suggest this bc ICE is awful and almost never actually follows the law. But in this case I think I can make an exception lol. Call immigration on his ass and get him arrested lol. this would be worse case scenario tho only if you couldn’t get any child support or anything else from him. whatever you do, just know it will affect your child. Good luck girl!

Why did you continue sleeping with him knowing you knew his background? I am confused!

Girl all the red flag are there no need to ask this question you already know the answer to

everyone in here saying why would you stay with him or why are you asking if you already know or what did you expect knowing his history.. clearly hasn't been in an emotionally abusive and manipulating relationship. trauma bonding is a real thing and it's hard to pull yourself away from someone you are trauma bonded too. it's a shitty feeling of knowing you shouldn't be with a person but not being able to walk away. maybe she just needs some validation and just to vent it out.
girl i hope soon you realize people like that don't just change. believe me ive gone through something similar. mine wasn't a cheater but he was mentally and physically abusive and i was so trauma bonded and couldn't leave that i stayed with him for way too long. although i know he's a shitty person i can't help but feel a tie to him and so i just try and keep him blocked and not say anything cause no one deserves to be treated like that. you deserve someone who knows your worth and only wants/sees you