Have you ever been through a divorce?

He was lazy. I don’t think there was a final straw. Laziness in men gives me the biggest ick.

🥲🥲

did u try therapy?? You think it works

I think therapy works for problems that can be worked out. And I don’t think all problems can be worked out. Like communication issues definitely try therapy. But like cheating abuse or trying to change as a person won’t work. I’m re married with someone wonderful and we have couples therapy just to continue being able to understand each other. It’s been great to maintain a good relationship

thank you ❤️

Lazy in all aspects of like like he wouldn't get a job or just wouldn't help with chores?

Wouldn’t get a job, and when he finally did barely helped me pay for anything.

Ah, I sort of know what that's like.