Possible miscarriage

Last night I went to the little company of Mary hospital, to the emergency room. Due to continuous bleeding and cramping. Had the worst treatment there possible, went in at 10 pm and got out at 6 am this morning. They did an ultrasound and transvaginal, the doctor told me they couldn’t find no cardiovascular activity, and that I had possibly miscarried. But the way he told me the news was completely unprofessional and possibly discrimination due to my husband. My little one had a strong heart beat last week and now all of a sudden there’s none 😔 I feel so broken and confused. They told me to schedule an ultrasound with my obgyn to confirm it, I have the appointment for Monday but they also told me try to go to another emergency room tonight.

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I’m sorry for your loss and I’m so sorry that the doctor didn’t have the empathy to tell you the news in a softer way, I know firsthand how hard and confusing losing a baby during pregnancy is. And I truly do feel for you 😔 stay close to your husband and loved ones and don’t focus too hard on what caused the loss, you’ll drive yourself crazy doing so, go easy on yourself and take your time to grieve your loss , remember all your emotions are completely valid. I’ll have you in my thoughts and prayers 🥺💕

I am so sorry you had this terrible experience. 😔 you deserve the utmost care, Momma. May God protect you and baby and His Angels be with you both in this trying time!!❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽 I am sending you both love and light. ✨✨✨

Wondering if I should go to another ER to get it confirmed or wait for my obgyn appointment?

I had a similar experience. I was in agony and in pain whilst waiting to be seen with no painkillers. Hows the bleeding now? My one was as if i started my period and got heavier. Had to change pad every hour. If yours is light and the cramps are mild, i really hope its just implantation bleeding as heartbeats sometimes tend to not show early in some cases. I had a strong heartbeat in the morning then nothing in the evening. Dr was shocked by it and never seen anything like it. Sadly, in my case i did end up miscarrying. Sending lots of love ♥️

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