How do I talk to my partner about wanting to try new kinks?

i like to start with asking about if he has any fantasies or if he's ever seen anything he wants to try in porn or something 🤭 sometimes when it's a more obscure kink that he might have to read more about to be comfortable with, i show him an article or something explaining it with a "wow look what i learned! would you try it?" or something along those lines lol

You could look into quizzes like the mojo upgrade where you both answer questions about what you'd want to try, and it only shares the answers to things you both say yes to.

You could send him erotica or show him porn featuring your kink of choice to see what he thinks.

Talk dirty about what you want to try while he's going down on you. His mouth is busy, let yours get to work too!

Ask if there is anything he wants to try. Or maybe go to a sex shop together and look around. Communicating about it can even be sexy, and will probably turn him on. My husband and I are so vanilla in the bedroom and we both love it that way but we definitely have conversations like this often, just to make sure we’re both enjoying our sex life. We have these conversations while watching movies, laying in bed, etc. really whenever it crosses our minds. Maybe approach the topic with a YouTube video where couples/ people learn about each other’s kinks. It doesn’t have to be super serious or anything.

There's a board game called monogamy it starts lukewarm then heats up.

Wear lingerie and put some sensual music on then poke your head into the room, and slowly your arms legs butt etc and give him a lil lap dance or a strippers’ tease before the foreplay. He’ll sit there w his eyes sparkling and his jaw open watching you move 💃🏼👌🏼 My man gets those 2-3* a year. Usually Vday and his Bday 🤪😂🥰
And if you wanna learn HOW to move, take some heels classes, that’ll teach you how to move sensually in heels

My husband was super vanilla and I was less vanilla. I started by just buying handcuffs online and mailing them to him in his name so when he opened it he took the hint.. it was a fun way to be like “tie me up bro”