What do I do?

I want my bf back but I don’t think he wants me back after all we been thru, the biggest challenge we are facing rn is being able to trust each other 100% and he said his confidence in us building a healthy relationship is not there, there has been a lot of good time with us but it has also been a lot of challenging times and right now the challenging times are getting the best of us!! We love each other deeply but he doesn’t think the relationship can be repaired at this point, is there anything I can do to change his mind and win him back?

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You cannot change the mind of someone else. sometimes people love each other but love is not enough if he doesn’t want to try to make it work you both need to do what’s best if that’s separating then so be it . What’s meant for you will always find you .

I’ve always said in my relationships that we can get through anything besides cheating. That’s the line of no return. People may think differently. But if there was cheating involved in your relationship, I wouldn’t even try, but if there’s not, then I would fight through hell and tell him we can get through it

Love isn’t always enough. It may be best to take a step back and keep healing yourself. Maybe one day you’ll get back together or maybe not. Trying to force it isn’t going to benefit any party. Take this time to focus on yourself so you can be ready when the next relationship presents itself and for yourself.

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