Partner cheating while pregnant

Has any dealt with there partner cheating while you pregnant with there baby I need some advice on what I should do I’m hurt right now and can’t thinking about it I’m 18 weeks pregnant and my partner been cheating on me I came to see him this weekend went through his phone and caught him texting another female and he sent a dick pic to her and gonna tell me that’s not cheating

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I went through this exact same thing when I was 18 weeks pregnant (I’m not 27.5 weeks). Personally I left, I feel like the way you treat someone when they are pregnant speaks volumes about your moral compass and who you are as a person so for me it wasn’t worth it. But you have to do what’s best for you and your baby, don’t think about what’s best for your boyfriend because he didn’t think about what was best for you when he cheated.

you right about that 💯💯

Sending lots of love your way! In such a vulnerable state you shouldn’t be dealing with cheating of all things. Only you can make the decision if you want to leave or stay. Do what you feel is best ! 🫶🏽

Leave sis, he ain’t worth the stress and hurt x

I don’t understand why they take us through hell and do stuff like that when we pregnant and carrying they child like you have a whole women you can watch you don’t here to be entertaining other females or watching porn I just never understood why they do it

Dump that arse. It will only get worse! Sending you lots of love 🤍

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I’ve loss it finally

Please help me good or bad advice I need it !!!
Quick rundown had my baby 3 months ago her dad was cheating on me all the way through pregnancy u til 2 months pp . I was depressed and sad along with pnd ! I allowed him to leave my house sleep about and come back I had no fight left in me I was broken emotionless didn’t want to be here . Fact forward to a few days after valentines day a male friend brought me flowers ex didn’t like it called me all the names ect but 4 days later begging me back I tried for our daughter but he’s put his hands on me twice in the month daily name calling body shaming
Then today we was out his friend rang him why we was in the car to say he has 2 girls for them to go link this was on loud speaker ! I lost my shit arguing we got home I seen red n went for him I then got the hammer & smashed his car windows . I know that was wrong but being goaded daily put down n body shamed made me hate him then I just seen red

Dads app!

I have been using this app for the last 6 months ish and found it brilliant for advice and making friends. My partner though doesn’t have any male friends who are dads and I was wondering if anybody knows of anything similar to this app that he could use to find some other dads local to us, to chat to/get advice/make friends etc. anyone any ideas? ☺️

In need of friends

I truly need friends to talk, vent and chat with whether it be text call or FaceTime I feel so alone even though I have people around me and my partner isn’t really being a partner in this time

Lost friends since being a mum

Good morning! Can anyone relate to this!

My two friends and me have always been close since our early teens. I’m the first to have a baby.

One friend has big house, career and boyfriend

Other out of a long term relationship and being single having fun etc

Before baby we would all hang at my
Apartment, chat eat and just have
Fun.

Now I don’t even get a text to ask how my baby is, how I am. I really thought they would be awesome aunties. But honestly they don’t care.

They meet up a lot to do cool things, which I can’t be upset about as I can’t as I have my baby.

I don’t know I feel sad about it.

Am I over reacting?

Work + baby?

Hi everyone I’m a struggling mom needing to go back to work but trying to avoid sending my baby to daycare I’m desperately trying to find work I can do with my baby as I won’t have any one I trust to babysit. If anyone knows anything please reach out. I just want my baby to be safe but living in this economy with one income is just impossible. Please fellow moms im begging for anything!

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