Nursery - am I overreacting?🙈

So my daughter has been potty trained since February - we still have a few accidents but not many at all. Most days she’s completely dry.

On Friday I picked her up from nursery like usual around 5.45 they said she’d had a great day no problems I noticed she was still in the same leggings I sent her in so that’s brilliant.
At 6.45 when starting to get ready for bed I took her trousers off and noticed she had a nappy on underneath her knickers. I asked her why and she told me for nap time. According to the app her nap time was 12pm - 12.15pm as we ask for no or little naps.

So for one I’m annoyed she had a nappy on for nap time but also has she not even been take to the toilet all afternoon since midday I do understand they might want a nappy on for naps but I’m so beyond annoyed at the fact she wore a nappy all afternoon as she’d obviously used it so that’s surely confusing to her.

Luckily we’ve had no accidents this weekend but I emailed the nursery on Friday night in frustration asking for an explanation.

Am I overreacting?

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Not at all, you are right to be annoyed.
I 100% would have done exactly the same as you.
It could have really wobbled her potty training.
Regardless of the potty training part, thats a long time to have a nappy on without it being changed.

I would expect a nappy for nap time but her usual no nappy after nap should have been followed.

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Thanks! I spoke to the nursery this morning and they will be ‘implementing more measures’ so it doesn’t happen again but basically she was put in a nappy for her nap and left in it all day

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Oh no :(
🤞 they keep to it this time.
The Nursery my Daughter goes to, we have had some questionable moments.
I found it really difficult to find a Nursery i was comfortable for her to go to too so it was really hard.
I must say since speaking to them (and crying down the phone to them) we have been all good so far 🤞
I was close to taking her out.
I hope now you have spoken to them they stick to their word xx

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This literally happened to my son today and after reading your post I feel like I didn’t make a big enough deal out of it 🙈 He had his normal nap from 12.15-2pm and they just left him in the nappy until I picked him up at 4pm! This means they didn’t take him to the toilet since his nap and he was wearing his nappy + underwear + shorts in this heat. I was fuming but felt like there’s nothing I could do apart from tell their room leader person about it. Everyone was very apologetic saying it won’t happen again but it’s still super frustrating.

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