Someone help me figure this out, please. ?

Did a ancestry blood test and a woman I never met came up as my great aunt. She also came up as a first cousin to my first cousin. She was adopted and her mother was in a place for unwed mothers. She was mixed.

I'm wondering why she came up as a cousin to my cousin but a great aunt to me ?

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overlapping family roles in cases of remarriage, blended , complex genealogical. Gr Aunt: sibling of yr granparents.1stCousin: child of yr parent's sibling. Blended-Marriage yr gr aunt marries someone who hs child from a previous marriage.
If 1 these child has child, that child could b yr cousin because of marital while yr gr aunt remains yr gr aunt biologicalOverlapping Gen.age difference between sibling. Gr great aunt is younger than her sibling (yr grandparent), might hv child same age as yr parent/u. aunt's child, yr parent r 1st cousin, u & yr great aunt's child r second cuz.Depend on family terms might refer to these relationships different.Double Relations 2 siblings from 1 family marry 2 siblings from another family, their children share 2 sets of grandparents. This creates "double cousin generations.incorrect Data family tree in ancestry simplify relationsh,errors need clarification. Eg, gret aunt inonn-traditional role due to adoption or step-family connections,.

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Hey Im still learning what family relations means in English cuz im ESL so can someone please explain to me what a great aunt is? Is that ur grandmas sister? And also first cousin, is that ur niece or nephews child?

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omg thank u for this!!! Like I’ve been trying to get my husbands side of the family to explain shit to me with their family relations & they do a terrible job, like they are useless after all these years I still don’t know who is who bt I was like “ow well who cares” lol bt after having a kid I’m trying to teach him now cuz I was him to know his family members &
Ancestors bt long story short thank u thank u for the diagram pic. Super helpful, problem solved

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Is she the daughter of your great grandfather?

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@Selena yes, she would have to be the daughter of one of them.

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She’s your first cousin’s first cousin but not your first cousin?

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I’m close to figuring this out! 😂

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@Selena 😆 yes that's what it says but I think maybe they just couldn't figure out how she was related to her.

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