Derriford Hospital & maternity side

Hi I wondered if any mums had put in complaints recently about the maternity ward? I had my child back in 2021 December but there’s several things I am not happy with now I’ve had therapy to look into it . & I’m also not sure what the process is like & whether they’re take it seriously enough? I have severe trauma from that ward specifically & I am not de compassionate in any way that midwives are under a lot of pressure & stresses . However it did not seem reasonable with things that went on . Help? Thank you!

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I never put an official complaint in but I mentioned on the form we got at the end of our stay about the lack of support we got whilst on ward- I had an emergency C-section and obviously my partner wasn’t allowed to be there other than 2 hours a day and everytime I rang my bell for the midwife to pass me my baby took 10mins or so- as a ftm who’s just had a traumatic birth, no partner around, not able to move is shocking! And then I had no support with breastfeeding. Really poor, this was April 2021

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they didn’t even ask me to fill a form out but I agree how shocking it was! I helped other mums with their babies because midwives were refusing to come help .

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Oh bless you! When were you in?x

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December 16th 2021 till like 3 days before Christmas Eve x

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I feel like a complaint would not make up for the things they are still actively doing . Or the trauma I now live with because of them . My student midwife was the only one I thanked gods for . Because she was there & completely present for all of us

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