Clary sage oil

I’m currently 40 + 1 day with my third baby. Atm I’ve had no signs of baby coming out. Has anyone clary sage oil and found it worked? Or any tips on how to use it? 🤞 Willing to try anything atm!

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Some people use it as a massage oil over the bump, neck and shoulders. Or can use it as a diffuser oil. It’s definitely worth a try 😬

I’ve been using it in the bath for the last two weeks and it hasn’t worked yet. I did hear that it only really works if you’re already in labour to strengthen contractions / make them more regular. But worth a shot! It’s relaxing either way

I tried it on my bump, I think maybe a couple more drops than I should have by accident. I woke up the next morning getting contractions and then was in established labour by 1:00pm and gave birth at 3:43pm yesterday! At 11am I was 2cm, then at 1pm I was 6cm!

I think it defo spend my delivery up, I was actually given some in labour!

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