I was today age when I learnt that more women had an outtie than an innie! Is that true?😳 (reposted to clarify- I’m talking about the lady parts, NOT belly bottoms)

My mum has always shamed me for it and always made comments like "why dose it look like that?" "That's not normal"
poor younger me was so shamed of what I
looked like down there!

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Your mom said that?? 😒 I'm sorry...no matter if more women have whichever I think we're all beautiful in our own ways

It was 15 years ago now…I’m over it! I’m in a way better place now!

I was today years old when I heard innie vs outie for lady parts 🫣 I'm so confused.

How are there even statistics about this? 😂 super weird for a parent to make any comments about their child’s genitals.

innie is when the labia minora is smaller and tucked in the labia majora. Outie so when the labia minors is larger and hangs out of the labia majora

I just got out a mirror to try to figure out what I’ve got lol. Also.. can’t remember the last time I looked!

😂😂 I looked just now.
Vaginal births can rearrange things too.

Umm ooof yes! Looks a different color too lol.

Wait so most women have an innie ?since we have only women here.?

I read the question wrong and thought it was about belly buttons. I guess I never heard of that for lady parts

First time I’ve heard of this… I assumed everyone has innies? Confused

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80% innies? I would've never guessed 😵

It looks like most people are actually somewhere in between in and out based on all those photo galleries shared in comments. That’s how I would classify myself. Somewhere in between. Like hangs out a little?

Oooooops I read the question wrong 😅 I have no idea... I've only seen all of myself down there like twice, and once was when I gave birth. I'm sorry I messed up the votes and was ignorant to what you typed up 😬 I saw "belly buttons" and instantly voted innie

Incog was also today year’s old when she learned it’s called a belly BUTTON not belly bottom 🤣

that was auto correct 🙃 so thank you for your assumption!

😂😂

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