Your top tip!

Those who are already using childcare, what is your top tip for those parents who are starting to look or about to start using childcare?

Mine would be to understand that the way you parent isn't 'normal'. So ask ALL the questions you want to! Ask what they do in certain situations to make sure it is something that you would be happy happening to your child.

I have supported parents as an emergency nanny who have pulled their child out of childcare simply because they didn't understand the setting they chose (setting had done nothing wrong, they just had a different style to the parents).

Save yourself the same stress! I have written a guide/journal to support you so you can ask all the important questions (the book has over 130 questions!)

What's your top tip?

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Ask about key workers.

How often they do observations and learning journals.

Ask about their planning so you have a rough idea of the learning ideas such as is it child led or adult led?

How often are nappies done.

Can they do the same nap time routine as you do at home as some nurseries will such as rocking and feeding to sleep while some don’t.

Where do children sleep?

How do they deal with illnesses and allergies? How often do children eat?

Just some things to ask as someone who works in a private nursery😊x

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Some great questions to ask

Are there any red flags parents should look out for?

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Child to staff ratios, key workers and illness, how they rotate the staff through rooms. Transitions.
I found that I got soooo much information on the walk around that I got my questions answered and more besides.

And if they don't do a walk around the nursery setting with you, this would be a red flag to me!

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great questions to be asking!
That is fantastic that your setting gave you so much info when they showed you around. Some are brilliant and then others can be a bit more 'here is the space, what questions do you have' so it always pays to be prepared!

Completely agree with you on the red flag if they won't do a walk around. Some settings won't do walk arounds when children are there, and while I know some of these settings can be brilliant, it is worth considering if this is something you are comfortable with as a parent as everyone will be different :)

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Is it just my husband that does this? He is able to work from home via his computer and in the mornings and evenings he is on there doing his job. When he is done for the day he tends to stay in the room and either play video games or watch something. He will occasionally come out and play with the girls for a few minutes and that’s it but when I really need him he says he is busy. My daughters are both 1 year old now and I am just wondering how much involvement should he have with them now?
Idk if this is the norm or not…..

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Saying NO to buying toys etc

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Daycare?

Thoughts on daycare?? Truly, I am SCARED to be leaving my kid for daycare. I literally do not trust anyone, not even family (they haven’t given me a reason it’s just trust issues on my end, you never know). He’s turning 3 and I’ve been a sahm the whole time but tbh my man doesn’t make enough for us to move out somewhere more calm . We live in a ‘not so safe’ area in LA and I’m just not used to living here so I just want us to give my son a better life and in order to speed up the process I would have to work.. I do lashes at home and I’d be open to take new clients so I wouldn’t have to look for work but I’m just scared to lose my license 😭

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Tablet for kids

Alright don’t need any negative Nancy’s telling me not to get my 2yo a tablet so if that’s what your gunna do please don’t participate in my poll.

We’re about to move cross country 3+ day trip and my 2yo and 9m hate the car I’m talking scream their heads off till they are out of their seats. We’ve already changed car seats and it didn’t help so I’d like to at least have one entertained and sit next to baby and try and distract her or put her to sleep. Our new car has tvs but since they are rear faced my 2yo can’t see it.

Debating getting her a tablet or dvd player right now on long car rides I end up giving her my phone because I get so overwhelmed sitting in between both of them screaming and crying.

And yes I do bring different toys I bring snacks I play songs try to distract her other ways but for the sake of not losing my mind on this move I think this is best.

-A very overwhelmed and anxious to move mama 😓

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My husband felt pretty disheartened and upset 😢

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