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I am a mom looking for genuine friends but I have trust issues…. How does that work??

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You can still make friends. You will just move more cautiously and that’s ok. Start with small talks, looking for consistency and set boundaries.

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It just takes time and lots of grace, especially with mothers who are often very busy and somewhat unpredictable.
I see a lot of people talking about "skipping the small talk" but that's how you get to know each other.
I have tried the approach where you just start talking to someone like you've known them for years and with the right person it can work.
Good luck finding your bestie!🤗

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that’s definitely true as well.

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@cessa im the same way...u have trust issues until u don't...u can't put ur trust in a person until u know for sure

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Omg same, anytime i have finally made friends they ended up treating me horrible and I never know why. I am terrible at making friends have been my whole life. After a while I have started to think it's me

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When you figure it out, let me know

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