Muslims? What is the belief on oral sex and sex outside of marriage?

For practicing Muslims, and tbh anybody seriously practicing any mainstream religion, they belief sex (in all its forms) outside of marriage is a no no. But if he’s Muslim, ask him about that whole oral sex thing. Since yall are still talking even though he married somebody else.

cultural superstition like “something bad will happen if you break this rule” but it’s not in the Qur’an or part of the religion

Im not Muslim but I know quite a lot about it because my friend is, she recently got married and it was arranged however she really liked the person. Regardless that his marriage was ‘for his family’ he still went through with it and is married. Taking religion out of the situation you morally should not be sleeping with a married man just my opinion and he is wrong as well.

This whole post is a mess

Umm, you do realise that HE got married without telling me? I am still single.
HE has been contacting me since.
I asked a specific question that is all.
This is not a post seeking permission to have sex! As if I need to ask that! 💦🤣

You are very disrespectful and he doesnt deserve his wife

In OP defense she did say she stopped talking to him but I don’t understand the point of the post tho because it does seem like your questioning if you you could continue the relationship (example will their be religious consequences? he says his wife is boring and only married her for his family.) so? What are you asking?

I don’t know who told you that if a Muslim man eats another woman’s pussy, their child would be disabled, that is very random and specific, however, Islamically and I’m sure in general, morally, cheating is wrong, it is a sin and there will be consequences one way or another.

That’s what a female Muslim convert told me! I was like huh? She says other sus things too, so I dunno!🤣
question marks, and you don’t understand the question?
Umm, could that possibly be because your answer to question 1 is no? You have stated that you are not a Muslim.🤔
Sinners are everywhere! This is not about morals. Bore off! 🤣

Nope👎. I explained the background, said what I was told and asked if it was true.
You should go back to school, and learn how to read before replying! You came on here talking about sinners!!!🤣
Just bore off! 🤣 💀

I don’t have to be Muslim I know the religion very well bc I have family and friends who are Muslim. I don’t understand the point of the post like I said. You’re Muslim and don’t even know the religion very well or you wouldn’t had made this post lol the Qur’an does not say that having sex outside of marriage causes a child to be disabled. First of all disabilities in Islamic understanding are seen as a test or part of Allah’s wisdom, not a “punishment” for the child or parents. In Islam, every child is innocent, regardless of the circumstances of their conception. Muhammad said that no one bears the burden of another’s sin (Qur’an 6:164). The Qur’an condemns sex outside of marriage (zina) as a sin but it never says that children born from it are punished, cursed, or disabled because of it. Does that answer your question? As I said above it’s cultural superstition. Maybe if you spent more time reading the Quran and not having oral sex with married people you could answer ur own ?

I think a lot of people are missing the part where she said she STOPPED TALKING TO HIM once she found out he was married

I’m just thinking bout his poor wife. She married a man that finds her boring 🥲. I pray she finds out and finds a good man, and especially if they have kids. Ah.. what a sad world.

And this is no Muslim man, cheating, engaging with a non mahram woman, involved in adultery.. that’s all outside of Islam.
And no, disabled children happens because of genetic faults, nothing to do with how sex was performed or who performed with who

Unpopular opinion but she's single he's not, she owes the spouse nothing it's the man wanting their cake and eat it too

(not the other one!)

Thank you! Some people are literally frothing at the mouth so quick to post judgement, that they can’t even read the post properly! 🤣

my issue isn’t even with the situation of her seeing a married man, she said she didn’t know at first. Cool great. It’s her responses that are a problem. Shes replying to people rude as fuck like she didn’t choose to put this information out there. Multiple people answered her question of no that’s not a thing however for whatever reason she’s super defensive, probably because she wants to continue seeing him, which yea is not cool

Nobody needs to be Muslim to tell you that that is clearly just a superstition/old wives tale. A child being born with disabilities will have absolutely nothing at all to do with whether their parents have cheated or not.

Please don’t waste your beautiful energy arguing with parochial plums projecting their own insecurities! 😑

yes this exactly

You’re questioning if his wife’s child will be disabled? Girl, that’s not how life works and no religion to my knowledge says that either.

Why would she be punished for your and her husband’s sin, she done nothing. And is right this post subtly implies you are considering the relationship and also he is not blocked once you found out he is a married is insane to me.

So to answer your question about her child being disabled because you slept with her husband …no that’s all genetics. You really can’t get upset because it’s the internet you’re going to get unwanted opinions , especially on a public post for everybody. I was only trying to answer your question until I felt you were being rude to me then I changed my tone. But have a blessed day.

Please let the wife know he’s cheating it’s not fair for he r