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Would love to build genuine mummy friendships in the area. If anyone ever wants to have coffee/lunch/baby classes, etc let me know! Maternity leave can be lonely! Plus, I seem to spend most of my days walking around Bluewater, so keen to discover new things.

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Group chats?

Message me if interested in joining my group💕🫶🏻🥹

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Would you leave?

Ment to be marrying my partner July next year but in the last couple of months things have been rocky. He spent £800 in one day on onlyfans and has since then done it the odd time again but only £50 a time on the odd occasion. This was until last night where he has spent about £400 again. Would you stay or would you leave. Along side the spending he is messaging these people saying how attractive they are yet he never tells me that. We have a 3 year old together.
Sorry it’s not baby related but had no where else to turn.

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Contraception

We usually use condom. But I'm so so scared that I'll be pregnant again by the littlest chance possible. I can't afford another baby I don't even have energy or mental capacity for it. My body can't handle it. I can't even make a mistake, I can't have any surprises. Im too scared to use the coil and I don't want to have pills. Has anyone got pregnant still using condoms?

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What age is best to get the tonies box?

I’m thinking of getting one for my little girl but can’t decided if I should get it this Christmas/birthday or wait until next.
She will be 10 months at Christmas, will she get any use out of it this year?

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Best Job to do while looking aftera newborn?

Hi!
Before i got pregnant i was working as an HCA. I lost my first baby to this job and didn't want to do it again ofc was scared. So i quit my job as soon as i found out i was pregnant. Anyone has any suggestions on what should i be going forto earn money while looking after my baby which is due in December this year? I don't even know when nurseries usually start accepting kids? Like at what age and i don't have any support system.

Thank you in advance

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Feeling alone

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and currently pregnant. Lately I’ve been feeling depressed and suicidal and I feel alone like I can’t talk to him about how I feel.

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