Trying to start the process of being poly

My husband works out of town and I’m lonely! The goal is to find someone who would like to be in a relationship with us. Hopefully to curb my loneliness while he’s gone, but also to just add some amazing new connection in our life. Super open to it being an occasional thing, or full on relationship (idk the right terminology- throuple, triad? Poly? Idk haha) but we are new to this. We don’t have local friends where we live and have no idea how to even potentially find and or meet people who would be interested lol

Any tips on how to start this process?

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The proper term depends on the dynamic you’re looking for. And it sounds like you’re super NEW new at this but from what I can gather, you seem to be looking for a connection for yourself. That would be a poly V relationship with you being the hinge/connection, between your husband and new partner. A throuple/triad involves all parties intimately and even romantically in some dynamics.

We look for both but some “single” women aren’t always open to both genders or even find us both to be their type so PATIENCE is key with this lifestyle. DO NOT SETTLE. I understand wanting that feminine connection for my own reasons but a lot of people will expect you to settle for them simply bc they are female yet they don’t TRULY measure up to what you’re looking for bc this life isnt for everyone. I tell them “it may not be for everyone but there are billions of people in the world and I’m not a person that settles for something that doesn’t satisfy my life”.

Write a list of what you’re looking +

For and needing. Don’t look at it as your husband lacking in any particular area but as your unit being a glass and you and your husband being different amounts of water but there still being space for more.

Some people will not mix with you both like adding oil to water. But the right person will fill your glass the rest of the way. 🫶🏽

All the advice I have. Good luck to you.

Where are yall located?

in our community

Looking for friends

Hey laddies. I’m 27 year olds I’m a mom of 2 girls. I’m currently 3 months pregnant. I want to make some new friends I get bored I realize I don’t have any more friends. I stay in Tennessee. Also I’m a Virgo. Let’s be friends 🥰

Lost friends since being a mum

Good morning! Can anyone relate to this!

My two friends and me have always been close since our early teens. I’m the first to have a baby.

One friend has big house, career and boyfriend

Other out of a long term relationship and being single having fun etc

Before baby we would all hang at my
Apartment, chat eat and just have
Fun.

Now I don’t even get a text to ask how my baby is, how I am. I really thought they would be awesome aunties. But honestly they don’t care.

They meet up a lot to do cool things, which I can’t be upset about as I can’t as I have my baby.

I don’t know I feel sad about it.

Am I over reacting?

Feeling stupid

I got drunk last night and had unprotected sex he didn’t cum in me but I’m ovulating
And having pain and I’m freaking out

Can I take morning after pill when already ovulating/ ovulated
And is there any safe for breastfeeding

31 weeks pregnant and lonely

How to deal with loneliness in pregnancy when your boyfriend goes out with his friends drinking 😅🥲 I only have three friends, two are never really free and one lives back in Liverpool and has her own set of friends where she goes to raves and goes on holiday with them lol. My boyfriend is going out soon for the night as it’s sunny and I’ll just be sat here crying like every single time! When does it stop 🤣

Has anyone else had issues with their friends that aren't pregnant or have kids?

I have a friend at work and we've become really close over the years. But ever since I become pregnant she just doesn't understand anything I'm going through which is fine except for the fact that the past few days I have been exhausted physically and socially. We have been helping another friend out for about a month now and we've had to keep him entertained as he's going through a rough time right now and it's drained me socially . my friend at work is frustrated because I'm not talking a lot and I'm exhausted and she doesn't understand why and I'm just curious if anybody else has had issues with friends that are not going to the same thing or have gone through the same thing as you connecting with you because she's literally mad at me. She stopped talking to me at work today and I just don't understand what to do.

Running mums!

Any other runners on here? Would love to connect ☺️