Co-parenting schedules

Me and my ex plan to co parent, I am still currently pregnant. I raised us having a schedule made pre the babies arrival as I think this will avoid tension or any arguments.

I asked him 10 weeks ago to draw one up and I would draw one up and we would discuss it all. Well 6 times he’s moved the date of this discussion, the last time we were due to sit down and discuss one he messaged at 9:15pm at night to say we needed to move it as “life’s been crazy” I found out that meant he was attending a 2 day wedding fair enough

However now I’m just at my wits end as he’s the one pushing for overnights when baby is born, but won’t let me know what schedule he wants or how he wants to work out drop off/pick up.

We have agreed on one thing financially we will individually cover the baby when it’s in our care.

Am I being unreasonable that I’m getting pissed off with the schedule discussions being left undone or just ignored🤦🏻‍♀️ keep in mind I’ve a high risk pregnancy and this is our successful pregnancy after 3 losses.

in our community

Has anyone else had issues with their friends that aren't pregnant or have kids?

I have a friend at work and we've become really close over the years. But ever since I become pregnant she just doesn't understand anything I'm going through which is fine except for the fact that the past few days I have been exhausted physically and socially. We have been helping another friend out for about a month now and we've had to keep him entertained as he's going through a rough time right now and it's drained me socially . my friend at work is frustrated because I'm not talking a lot and I'm exhausted and she doesn't understand why and I'm just curious if anybody else has had issues with friends that are not going to the same thing or have gone through the same thing as you connecting with you because she's literally mad at me. She stopped talking to me at work today and I just don't understand what to do.

Spicy chat

Anyone up for a spicy chat, I’m horny

Friends

I’ve been on this app for almost 5 years now I still can’t find one friend. I just need a friend. I’m so fucking lonely.

STD rates and body count

Saw an interesting video and I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts on this topic!

So std rates are at an all time high as we all know. Do you think the mindset that body count doesn’t matter has contributed to the significant increase of STDs and HIV?

Secondly if someone says that body count doesn’t matter do you believe they are less likely to practice safe sex compared to people who believe in more traditional values?

I can’t put all the combinations in the poll so feel free to comment just yes/no answers

(If you’re going to reply please keep your responses respectful and polite.)

What happened to Zainab

Hey guys haven’t been on here in a sec! Just come to realise I haven’t seen any posts / comments from Zainab (I’m sure that’s her name 🫠) hoping she is ok , I’m sure she was a Mod but can’t seem to find her anymore 🤔

Vitamins?

Does anyone do vitamins for their one year old?
Just seeing if it’s worth trying as the never ending colds and illnesses are battering our house 😂