Im pregnant right now and I don’t want to rely on my fiancé . I’m not leaving him I just want a career for my self. I was thinking about joining the military once I give birth but I hate the idea of him asking his family for help while I’m in boot camp. For a little context ( his sister would make my son call her momma when she would baby sit him) I feel like I’m being to controlling if I tell him I don’t what my soon to be born girl and son going over there a lot. What should I do? Or is it a good idea to leave in general if I leave as soon as I give birth I won’t be missing out on to much.!?
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Sounds like you still need support and if you leave you’re still relying on him and his family. You hate the idea and clearly his sister isn’t someone you want around your children…what are some other options you can look into?