Local friends/meet ups?

I'm a 25 yo SAHM in maidstone town centre and have a 5 year old girl who's just started school and I'm doing literally nothing whilst shes at school, just the odd bit of housework but mainly waiting around for the time to pass
Lost contact with everyone in my life besides 1 local friend due to a previous relationship and really needing to try and find some form of human interaction again so I'm not staring at the same 4 walls and only communicating with a 5yo day in day out 🤣

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I’ve got a 2-year-old son and I’m a housewife and trying to find a job. We’re basically from India, moved to London 4 years ago, and then shifted to this area last year. Since moving, we literally don’t know anyone here — not even a single person.

All our friends are far away now. If I want to meet them, it’s 2 hours to go and 2 hours to come back… with a toddler šŸ˜… It’s exhausting, and honestly so expensive too. So most of the time I just don’t go.

My whole day is just me and my little boy. I love him more than anything, but some days I realise I haven’t had a proper adult conversation at all. It’s just cartoons, snacks, and toddler talk on repeat 🤣

Being at home full-time can get really lonely, especially when you’ve moved and had to start from zero socially. I completely understand that ā€œsame four wallsā€ feeling. It would be so nice to have more local human interaction and not feel so isolated all the time šŸ¤

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I have 2 boys one is at nursery one isn’t but I’m always up for making friends if you wanted to message

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My little girl is 4 and starts school in September but I have no mum friends so I’m up for meeting for a coffee šŸ™‚

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