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Me and my husband sleep in our living room since we brought our NICU babies home on the second. Do you think it would be ok to start sleeping in our own room now?

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I feel it depends on your home layout and what works best for the family but as a mom to a nicu baby I don’t judge- do what fits best for you guys! 🫶🏻

Congrats on bringing babies home!!!

I kept baby in her bassinet right next to me until she was about 8 months and then I could tell my presence was waking her up so moved her to her own room for naps first then for overnight a week or two after. At that age you'll be up feeding them frequently so I always found it nice to just pull her into bed for a feeding and then back down very close.

Do what feels right to you and listen to your mom instincts.

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