Advice please 🙏🏻

I had 14 positive pregnancy tests last week and they have started getting fainter. The past 2 days I’ve been having severe abdominal cramps and a sharp pain on one side of my tummy. The pregnancy tests are now negative but I haven’t had any bleeding. Awaiting a call back from early pregnancy unit as doctor sent an urgent referral yesterday but have still not heard back (I have called and keep getting told I am on the list etc)

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I'm sorry you're going through this. It's hard. A chemical pregnancy usually shows a negative test 2-5 days before bleeding starts 🫂

There isn't anything they will likely do for you as it will just pass as a normal but slightly heavier, slightly crampier period. Should be around your usual length of period too.

The only good thing is that you are more fertile after a loss. Sending lots of love xx

How far along are you? It could just be the hook effect 🤞 sending u luck

There is still a line there. Have you had a call from the doctor yet??

It could be twins👀 with twins your ecg will be too high for a test to pick up causing the hook effect which could be reason for a positive later in the day when your urine has been diluted

Oh bless you. Yeah the waiting is awful. Well hopefully the fact you're still getting a faint positive leans towards the hook effect and not a chemical!!! Fingers crossed ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ xxx

Aww that's ok. Always happy to help if/when I can ❤️ clearly I have a lot of time on my hands 😛 xx

Had bloods done which came back negative and started bleeding today. Feel extremely gutted and sad ☹️ been trying for over a year and feels like it’s never gonna happen xx

Oh bless you. That's really tough.

I know it's hard but try and stay positive. After a chemical you're far more fertile ❤️ if you feel up to it, try again straight away 🤞🏼🤞🏼 xxx

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So I had a blood test at the drs bc I keep getting positive tests when the blood test was negative what could this mean? Hubby says the tests are negative and said he can’t see anything. Negative image down below.

Am I pregnant?

I lightly spotted almost 5 days ago, which is not common for me before my period.
My period was supposed to come today. I should have tested in the morning but its 5:30pm.
Is there a second line??

Anyone have this happen before?

We were not trying to conceive, used protection and had sex on week 2 of my cycle (accidentally on my peak ovulation day). Week 3 we had Flu A. Week 4 my period did not come (it’s very regular). I tested and it was negative (2 different brands).
What should have been week 2 of my next cycle (now 6 weeks post last period), I had light red/ pink spotting for one day when I wiped. The following week, I tested again, still negative, but this time almost all the dye was in the negative space, which I’ve never seen happen before. The area where it shows one horizontal line for negative and a plus sign for positive, the horizontal line was super faded at the 3 minute mark, and the negative vertical line in the next window was VERY dark. Now I’m on week 8 of all this, period did not show up yesterday. Nothing in my life has changed (no additional stress, no other illness, no changes in diet or exercise, etc).

Has anyone gone through this and NOT been pregnant? I’m super nervous as we thought we were done having kids.

PS. I know I should go get a blood test, does anyone know if urgent care will do that? I’m past being convinced by a pee test.