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After Valentine’s Day weekend…. My husband has only touched me once… and it was a quickie before work… we had an argument the day about him accepting a Valentine’s Day gift from someone he used to mess with heavy. I saw msgs from this girl tell him she was going to be around and to hit her up. That same day she was around and we had the argument, he left the house for 5 hours… never reached out to me the whole time until the last 10 minutes before he came back home.. jumped in the shower IMMEDIATELY and when I go to look at his underwear… ofc… cum/ nut stains… so I confront him… he says he beat his meat in the car…
IM NOT TF STUPID!!! His excuse now for not having sex with me lately is because “his stomach been hurting” but it didn’t hurt that much when you was “beating it”.. he wants to use a stomach bug as an excuse but when I was only 3-4 weeks postpartum he wanted sex! And guess what! He ended up getting it anyway (with consent). Maybe im reading too much into why he doesn’t wanna have sex with me. Maybe im just sexually frustrated, i cant even get horny and play with myself because I’m so irritated about this. WTF!

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He’s cheating. Leave him girl

If you want him to change you have to MOVE OUT. Not act single while ur both living together because that will just cause more fights. But think about moving out and letting him know u love him but ur over getting treated like this

Girl check that phone there’s more to this he’s definitely cheating

He’s cheating sorry to say it to you don’t ask questions just know about it. Step it up girl try harder he found something in you once it’s still there be vulnerable cry about it. Try hard. You guys can get through this. Love beats all things

What does your gut feeling says? Listen to it and decide accordingly

He’s cheating big time. My ex didn’t even look at me when he was talking to another girl. If he able to cheat on you and act like you don’t exist. You need to leave you have better worth then that. I know it’s hard just me took me months to get the courage but you need to do what’s better for you and your baby!

It took me years of me and my baby both dealing with DV to leave . My son got abused just as much as me and everyone saw it first handed. At least 20 CPS cases on him

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Looking for friends

Hey laddies. I’m 27 year olds I’m a mom of 2 girls. I’m currently 3 months pregnant. I want to make some new friends I get bored I realize I don’t have any more friends. I stay in Tennessee. Also I’m a Virgo. Let’s be friends 🥰

Lost friends since being a mum

Good morning! Can anyone relate to this!

My two friends and me have always been close since our early teens. I’m the first to have a baby.

One friend has big house, career and boyfriend

Other out of a long term relationship and being single having fun etc

Before baby we would all hang at my
Apartment, chat eat and just have
Fun.

Now I don’t even get a text to ask how my baby is, how I am. I really thought they would be awesome aunties. But honestly they don’t care.

They meet up a lot to do cool things, which I can’t be upset about as I can’t as I have my baby.

I don’t know I feel sad about it.

Am I over reacting?

Feeling stupid

I got drunk last night and had unprotected sex he didn’t cum in me but I’m ovulating
And having pain and I’m freaking out

Can I take morning after pill when already ovulating/ ovulated
And is there any safe for breastfeeding

31 weeks pregnant and lonely

How to deal with loneliness in pregnancy when your boyfriend goes out with his friends drinking 😅🥲 I only have three friends, two are never really free and one lives back in Liverpool and has her own set of friends where she goes to raves and goes on holiday with them lol. My boyfriend is going out soon for the night as it’s sunny and I’ll just be sat here crying like every single time! When does it stop 🤣