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I currently live with my ex gf and I don’t have a license . I have temp cash assistance and I need to do a work program . My ex girlfriend is trying to do everything possible to get me to not do the work program . I told her I need my lisence so I can drive myself . She said it’ll make it worse with everything going on . She said I need to drop TCA and go for SSI . I need my money for my kids . I’m stressed out what should I do ?

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Ssi sounds better because you don’t have to do work program

Many moms get jobs and put their baby is daycare tho idk your situation but im sure you could do this too

Hmm Mabey just get a partum job if your house hold makes under 2k you don’t loose any TCA

You guys should be on the same page of course but you seem kind of unsure and it’s important to stand up and make decisions for your self so you don’t just fall for anything I think it would be good for you to get out the house and interact with society while if you were on SSI how would staying home benefit your mind ?

I don't think it's your EX gfs choice

Go with your gut.

Are you planning on getting your licence?

I think she's being super manipulative to try to make you reliant on her and not be able to properly leave her.

Do you guys still live together?

Oh sorry you already said that.

Do you have anyone else who could help you? Like drive you places?

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