Cost of NICU?

Hi Mamas! So happy this group exits. You all are so strong! Just wanted to know if you had a baby under 30 weeks GA, what was the cost of having your baby in the NICU if you had insurance? Just trying to prepare myself 😅 (if it’s a lot please answer sensitively 😅)

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My baby was born at 24 weeks in CO and because she was under 500g the hospital had me file out paperwork and they filed it to have her put directly on Medicaid. Each state is a little different though you’d have to check yours specifically

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Technically the overall cost for my baby’s 6 month NICU stay (born at 24 weeks) was over 3.5 million dollars. Luckily I had already meet my insurance plans out of pocket maximum. So in all I only have a $1,000 bill. But there is a bit of an dispute for one bill because she had to be transferred hospital and we were told despite there only being 1 team in my area that transfers NICU baby’s there are out of network thus I owe an additional $9,000. But I am trying to dispute it.. over all I got really lucky with my insurance. But did have a rather large bill for me tho up until I meet my out of pocket max.

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My baby born at 24 weeks in Canada, being a Canadian national, his all expense including 6 months hospital stay were free

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I have Medicaid for my son so I didnt see any of the bills. I paied nothing out of pocket. He was born at 32 weeks.

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Thank you all so much! This helps a lot.

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Family culture difference on money

Sorry this is long, I hope some of you get to the end and give advice!!!

So I’m a very thrifty person, things are tight at the moment, the cost of living crisis and my house is heated by oil so things are extortionate. We aren’t on the bread line but we aren’t flush, hubby might be made redundant so there is some financial pressure.

Sometimes I buy my sons something nicer, on the justification that I can sell it on after (♥️ vinted ♥️). I have also been planning on pretty much breaking even most of the baby things I bought from face book market place, side by crib, baby changing unit, etc.

Hubby and I have different money cultures with our families (he’s Indian, I’m British). I’m my family we don’t mix money, we would help each other out if someone was in trouble and will get each other gifts on special occasions. With hubby’s family money is much more fluid, they will give each other things worth thousands of £ just because.

Hubby’s brother bought him a new laptop and a new Google phone, he’s been very generous to hubby. Hubby hasn’t given the same back because brother is much richer.

Hubby and I mostly share finances. If it’s relevant I’m the higher earner.

Now to the point! My babies are so cute they’ve given hubby’s brother (currently single) baby rabies. He’s asked for our baby stuff when we’re done with it. He’s been so generous to hubby I feel really stingy saying no. But I’d never have bought some of the stuff if I wasn’t going to get a return on it - the thought makes me a bit anxious. If we gave all our baby stuff given the second hand value it still wouldn’t equal what the brother had given hubby.


I thought maybe I could give him some stuff but sell some stuff, but hubby said then his brother will just have to go out and buy that stuff, so I should name my price and ask his brother for the money. That makes me feel very uncomfortable, given how generous the brother has been to hubby.

So what do I do ladies? Give it all and suck it up? Give part of it and sell parts on Vinted/FB, or ask hubbys brother for money for it and be uncomfortable? Or do you see another solution?

No one is being entitled or rude here, just a culture difference I need to navigate.

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