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Any advice about how to survive in Iowa??? Our family is new to Iowa but my husband is originally from Wisconsin so the cold doesn’t bother him but I am not used to living in a new state and still trying to figure out resources and trying to make friends

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Iowa sucks , tbh...when it comes to weather! You'll have all four seasons in ONE week

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been here a year now from cali and arill struggling to meet people. Your body will get use to the cold over time

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*still

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I moved here from Wisconsin 8 years ago and it has been hard making and keeping friends. I have made friends but I think ppl from Iowa stay friends with who they grew up with and not looking for new friends.

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I’ve met a few new friends just by using this app. Anywhere is hard to make new friends. I’m 19 and struggle to do so. It’s especially harder to find friends as you get older.

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I’ve lived in Iowa my whole life and it sucks. I don’t think you ever get used to the cold and then the snow in the ice suck.

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Its draining AF ion like it. Makes u think ur the problem ijs … where yall located?

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