Help a girl out because wtf????

Well….maybe just give him some time to think things through. Having someone threaten him, insult him etc can probably be upsetting. No one really wants to deal with an ex, especially if they think this person is going to around for a long time. I can understand blocking your child’s father, but what will you tell them when they get older (if the plan is to keep him permanently blocked)? It’s a tough situation you’re in.

Girl this is a really tough situation, and I’m sorry you’re going through it. When a child’s father starts bringing drama directly to your partner, most men are going to step back; not because they don’t care, but because why , it’s too much too soon. Would you want all that from an ex? You would want peace in relationship as much as you can get. At this point the best thing you can do is focus on stability for you and your baby and setting firm boundaries with your child’s father(hoping he follows them).

If you want to clear the air and really feel it’s worth it, you can keep messaging to ask if he’d be open to meeting to talk things through, so there’s honesty and clarity instead of confusion. Hopefully he agrees. After that, give him space and let his actions show you where he stands. But you also need to be prepared to accept that your boyfriend may have chosen to remove himself from the situation. No matter what happens, protect your peace and your child first.