Honest answers please - date nights/going out

We left our son last summer with my parents for one night, he was around 4 months then, because I was a maid of honour at my best friend's wedding and he was too young to bring with us. Then at Christmas, my partner and I went out with some friends and left the baby with my mother-in-law, he was 10 months then. So twice in a year basically. Both times I have left milk in a bottle.

I’m exactly the same as you, I also have a 3 year old and only left her once to give birth to my son who is still EBF and fed to sleep 😂
I honestly couldn’t care about going out in the evening, I’m exhausted and would rather be at home with my babies

I’ve missed quite a few bedtimes tbh. My parents have had my little boy a handful of times whilst me and my partner have gone out for date nights probably since the age of around 5 months and I’ve gone out a few times and left my little boy with my partner.

I have left my 3 year old mote times than I can count, to be honest. She has been for several sleepover at my mother and sister in laws (they live together). Also my partner does bedtime routine 3 times a week so I'll sometimes just go out for a few hours during the evening. My one year old is still breastfed but also eats well. She wants the boob if I'm there but goes to sleep without it if I'm not. I think everyone is different and does what works for them my girlies are with me the majority of the time during the days so I find I meed nights to work and exercise etc. I also go away 2 nights every year with my sister which has always been non negotiable for us

I have 2 kids so might be completely different. I left my first overnight when she was 8months but she was with her dad and I stayed at a friends. But with my 2nd she stayed overnight from 4months old. (Was with my mum) me n my mum are really close aswell so again might be different. But let ur baby get to know the person first. Before having an overnight xx

My eldest is 4 and I also only missed bedtime when I was in hospital giving birth to this baby. I have no intentions of leaving either at night or around bedtime anytime soon unless there was an emergency personally. We don't have any family close by though.