Finding friends

How do people at the age of 30 make friends

I see so many people have their “ girls” around them yet I seem to be so alone I’ve been down the “ there must be something wrong with me “ road, I have had friends for periods of times but even then they never last the long hall or I end up being made out to be a terrible person when I can’t give attention 24/7. I never seen to be able to find my people. I definitely think that I am undiagnosed adhd which doesn’t help as I struggle to give 100% all the time especially when I get in to the zone with something or things get too loud. I have 3 kids and my partner which I adore but sometimes I would love people to go out and do things with. I’m not much of a drinker but would love to be able to go out for drinks or shopping or anything really. I have a long distance friend which is great we FaceTime and message but it would be nice to have people local to go and do things with. I don’t know the reason for this post tbh I just felt like I needed to get it out.

in our community

Has anyone else had issues with their friends that aren't pregnant or have kids?

I have a friend at work and we've become really close over the years. But ever since I become pregnant she just doesn't understand anything I'm going through which is fine except for the fact that the past few days I have been exhausted physically and socially. We have been helping another friend out for about a month now and we've had to keep him entertained as he's going through a rough time right now and it's drained me socially . my friend at work is frustrated because I'm not talking a lot and I'm exhausted and she doesn't understand why and I'm just curious if anybody else has had issues with friends that are not going to the same thing or have gone through the same thing as you connecting with you because she's literally mad at me. She stopped talking to me at work today and I just don't understand what to do.

Spicy chat

Anyone up for a spicy chat, I’m horny

Friends

I’ve been on this app for almost 5 years now I still can’t find one friend. I just need a friend. I’m so fucking lonely.

STD rates and body count

Saw an interesting video and I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts on this topic!

So std rates are at an all time high as we all know. Do you think the mindset that body count doesn’t matter has contributed to the significant increase of STDs and HIV?

Secondly if someone says that body count doesn’t matter do you believe they are less likely to practice safe sex compared to people who believe in more traditional values?

I can’t put all the combinations in the poll so feel free to comment just yes/no answers

(If you’re going to reply please keep your responses respectful and polite.)

What happened to Zainab

Hey guys haven’t been on here in a sec! Just come to realise I haven’t seen any posts / comments from Zainab (I’m sure that’s her name 🫠) hoping she is ok , I’m sure she was a Mod but can’t seem to find her anymore 🤔

Vitamins?

Does anyone do vitamins for their one year old?
Just seeing if it’s worth trying as the never ending colds and illnesses are battering our house 😂