Won't meet me halfway
My husband and I have not had sex in a few months.
The way I show love is to nurture. I cook all the meals. I pack my husband's breakfast and lunch everyday. I try to make sure dinner is ready as much as possible, depending on the kids moods.
My husband keeps complaining that we haven't had sex. Last time we tried, my baby woke up and then my husband got mad at me.
So now I am scared to even try because I don't know if my baby is going to wake up. I am not a sex doll who can just go straight into sex. I need some warming up. And my husband was like well we don't have time for that. So I've stopped even initiating.
But man I want hugs and kisses. I want to be shown some love. Where's my meals?. He claims his love language is touch, but he doesn't even touch me
I've made it a point to always greet him when he comes home with a big hug and kiss.
Today I gave a random passionate kiss and he was like ok. Then I was like can I get random hugs and kisses. And he pretty much said no. I'm not going to initiate. I used to initiate before and I didn't get what I wanted so now I'm not going to do what you want.
I explained that we can't say well I'm not doing this for you if you aren't doing this for me. We need to work together to try to be strong again. I was like look, I'm making you all this food and then he's like well then stop. I don't need you to cook for me.
Ugh I just feel so lost. I don't know where to turn to help make this better.
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Takes two and his behavior is a major turn off to anyone. Let him fix himself, until then- vibrators are your bestie
He told me that I need to fix myself. He told me I need to get therapy or get my hormones checked. He thinks he's in the right.
I would do exactly what he said and stop cooking for him. Your feelings are valid!!
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