Husband returned to work this week after paternity leave and it’s right back to work come home sit and not help because him working and providing for us is enough… which I’m grateful for but I need help especially with four kids, but when I mention anything about it he gets mad and says he’ll quit because obviously it means nothing 🙄
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I feel you!! My baby’s dad doesn’t even work and I don’t get a single bit of help financially, with the baby, anything 😭

Husband comes home from work and goes straight to his PC. When I’ve had a bad day with the kids it annoying me and he says he never gets any time to himself. He gets evenings once everyone goes to bed. I have to admit when he has tried to help out he’s not doing it right because it’s not the way I do it. But we do take it in turns to put the kids to bed. My husband would like to go part time and I’d love to go full time but we rely on his wages as it’s a lot higher than mine would be